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| 10-7-2008 - So I Have A Little Probelm |  My mood while writing this blog:Worried |
So I have a little problem. You see, my doctor told my husband and I that we could start ttc right away after our last miscarriage. The problem is, I don't want to have anything to do with BDing. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? Physically, I feel fine. It's not like I am too tired. I just don't have any desire what-so-ever to BD. So what can I do? I try to talk myself into it all during the day. Then when my husband gets home (albeit after we've had family time, eaten dinner, bathed Grayson and put her to bed) I give him some excuse for not wanting to. I need to figure out something quick because I'm thinking I'll ovulate around the 13th or 14th. Some would say, plan a romantic weekend getaway. But I'm the type of person, if I put too much pressure on myslef (in that way), it will just flop (no pun intended). On the other hand, the times that I'm feeling most like I want to, you know, 'do it,' is when my husband is away at work. How about that for timing.
So, if any of you have any ideas for me, I (and my husband inadvertently) would greatly appreciate it!!
4 Comments on So I Have A Little Probelm
minkymoo78 - Friday, 11 Jul
I felt like that after my miscarriage but I just carried on BDing anyway because I wanted to be pregnant again so much. All I can say is if you're not ready for it, don't rush into it. Thinking of you xx
Hopeful22 - Thursday, 10 Jul
I agree with firstlittleangel, let dh start it off and see if that will turn you on. After my m/c I felt the same way I just didn't have the desire to bd. I think I was depressed in someway.
So if dh turn up the heat then maybe that will get you in the mood ;-)
angeluv28 - Thursday, 10 Jul
Hey there! I'm happy to see you guys are ready to try again. I was in the same situation as you at the end of May. Once we got the okay to start (happened to be the end of June after my 1st AF, I was really excited. We started BDing kinda early(cd4) and by the time "o"day rolled around,which arrived 3 days late, I was already exhausted. I would have to say lots of foreplay is key! Even if u don't feel like doing it, Try to relax and let DH take over. That usually does the trick.
firstlittleangel - Thursday, 10 Jul
Hmm...lately I have felt pretty blah too. But once we started it was hard to stop for me! Maybe have your husband spontaniously decide to start playing and that might bring up the excitement for you to join in? I hate being the one to start things every time but the other night he started it and it was pretty hot!
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