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clairek
	Age: 28 Country: United kingdom Province/region: Berkshire City: Windsor Partner: Children: Yes, 3 Pregnant: No Due date: 09 0 ,0000 Occupation: Care worker
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26-8-2009 - AM I BEING TO HARSH

My mood while writing this blog:
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ADVICE IS NEEDED.

HERES THE PROBLEM:

MY HUBBY AND I DONT GET ON WITH HIS SISTER AND HER BOYFRIEND, HE IS A JERK AND IS ALWAYS HORRID TO Y KIDS TELLING THEM TO SHUT UP AND JUST IN GENRAL RUDE TO THEM HE HAS ALSO TURNED ROUND AND SAID I HATE COURTNEY SHE IS A SPOILT FU**ING BRAT, ALSO IN JAN HE SPOKE TO ME LIKE CRAP HENCE WHY WE HAVE ALL FALLEN OUT WITH EACH OTHER.

WELL BABY IS DUE IN 3 1/2WEEKS AND I JUST KNOW THAT IT IS ALL GONNA GO OF ON ONE BECAUSE I DONT WANT THE SISTER OR HER BOYFRIEND TO CUM AND C ME IN HOSP OR AT MY HOUSE CAUSE THE WAY I LOOK AT IT WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE JAN AND SO Y WUD THEY WANT TO C E NOW JUST CAUSE THE BABY IF I WASNT HAVING THE BABY THEY WUDNT WANNA SPEAK OR C ME, MY HUBBY AGREES WITH ME AND SAYS THEY ARENT TO CUM 2 HOSP EITHER BUT I JUST KNOW THEY R GONNA TRY AND ALSO MIL IS GONNA HAVE HER 2 PENNY WORTH PUT IN BY SAYING THEY SHUD C THE BABY ETC AND WE SHUD LET THEM IN THE HOSP TO C HIM.

I DONT USE MY CHILDREN AS WEAPONS AND IF THE BABY IS AT MIL HOUSE AND THEY R THERE I WUDNT STOP THEM FROM PICKING HIM UP OR SEEING THE BABY I JUST DONT WANT THEM CUMING TO HOSP AND CUMING TO MY HOUSE, WHEN THE GIRLS GO THERE NOW THEY SEE THEM AND I HAVENT NEVER ONCE STOPED ANY1 FRO SEEING Y KIDS BUT I JUST DONT WANNA B PUT IN THE SISTUTION WHERE I AM MADE TO FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE EPSC AFTER HAVING A BABY CAUSE U T AT UR MOST SENSTIVE THEN.

I HAVE SAID THAT IF THEY DO TURN UP AT THE HOSP I WILL HAVE THEM REMOVED AND ALSO IF ANY1 ELSE STARTS ON ME BOUT THEM CUMING IN I WILL HAVE THEM REMOVED ASWELL. I STAND BY THIS DECISON BUT SUM1 SAID TO ME THE OTHER DAY THAT ME AND HUBBY R BEING TO HARSH.

WAT DO U LADIES THINK AM I RIGHT TO DO WAT I AM DOING OR A I WRONG?

10 Comments on AM I BEING TO HARSH

lyndseyk86 - Thursday, 3 Sep
YOU ARE COMPLETELY RIGHT!! YOU NOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT FAMILIES, F**K EM!! LOL XXX

Bubbles-Eleanor-Ruby - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Hey, if you don't want them there then they'll have to understand! It is totally up to you, you have every right to say no! Don't let your MIL push you into something you dont want! Like you said they haven't spoke to you since jan so whats the difference now! The last thing you need is to be stressed on the day you give birth, it should be amagical moment not one overshadowed by the thought of them coming to see you! stick to your guns hunnie! if you say no then it means NO! xx big hugs xx

Bambi - Wednesday, 26 Aug
You don't need any stress on that special day. You have ever right to say who you want there and who you don't.

nat1989 - Wednesday, 26 Aug
DO WATS BEST 4 U HUN, IF U DNT WANT THEM THER THEN THEY DNT B THER, UR THE ONE THAT WILL B GIVING BIRTH 2 THE BABY NOT THEM SO U DECIDE WHO COMES AND SEES U AND THE BABY XXX

REDBEAMER - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Funny you write this.... because i have a sister who is "mean", but they say i am mean...go figure... Anyways, stick to your guns...Her boyfriend has no right being rude to your kids at all....If it was me and i heard that i would go off on him...He has no right saying your kids are spoiled...KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOURSELF... Is what i say...or say it to my face...Telling them to stay away from you only makes things better for you and your family...You don't need that kind of negative energy from your sisters... Sometimes we get along better when we don't see or speak to them... that is how i am with my sister... we get along GREAT...I have not spoken to her in weeks... OH WELL

mommy-ofa-boy - Wednesday, 26 Aug
i dont think so at all i say tell the mil she need s to medorate and let them know if they wanted to see the baby they have to wait till hes at grandmas, im the same way about my sis in law she never has anything nice to say to me always gives me dirty looks and only calls my husband for money i already made it aware to dh that i will not subject my son to people like her... just stick by your word your not harsh the children come first besides people treat abies like puppies there so cute when there lil and then everything goes back to normal good luck

faith-star-x - Wednesday, 26 Aug
jeez claire no i dont think you are being too harsh, i would have done alot more, how dare he speak about your children like that!!, what an arse, he isnt real family not that being real family allows him to call them things i know..you stand by your decision hun its good that dh is with you on it too xx

Dizzyblond1979 - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Bloody hell! well no way are you being harsh! in-fact i think you havnt been harsh enough!! how dare he treat you n the kids like thsi he isnt even propper family yet!if i was you you could do 2 things either tell your MIL n say look i dont wnat him theer cause im sorry but i just dont like him he is rude and im NOT having it noway! i wont have anyone call my kids OR if you dont want to be totally up front with her you could say look ive decided that i dont want alot of visitors at the hosp so here is the few that i will allow, just say this is your wishes and you want them respected end of story!you dont need thsi clare its been a bloody hard time being prego on you so soon after babs i duno how ya do hun your amazin!!! anyway will ya pm ur addy on facebook so i can send card n that when Alfie has arrived xxxxx

longed4baby - Wednesday, 26 Aug
No not harsh at all hun! If they've been like that in the past they shouldnt be there if you dont want, you and Darren agree and thats all that matters!! xxxxxxxx

Shelley- - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Hiya, no I don't think thats harsh at all, this birth is all about what u want & if u don't want them there (I can see why - especially as they have disrespected u in the past) then go with what u feel! I'm sure they can understand that & if they don't then tough!x

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