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24-12-2009 - Baby daddy drama grrr

My mood while writing this blog: upset/puzzled

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grrr so once again my sons donor is starting his bullshit again..him and his family dont celebrate xmas..so i assumed he wouldnt want to see him..he didnt last year...but i kept telling myself he may want to see him...so i made plans anyways...well he waits until this past monday to say..so what do you want to do for xmas.... i told him we would be gone xmas eve and xmas until about 3 so if he wanted to come get him at 4 that would be fine..and he could take him over night as well....well i am with a new man and my sons father is not happy with that at all!! So he says fine ill pick him up before you go out xmas day because my son only needs to see your parents and my family..NOT anybodys else...than he proceeds to tell me you do NOT make plans without asking me first!! lol..are you kidding me?!?!?! so i told him my son will be going with us and he can pick him up at our house at 4 and thats that...well now he refuses and hes telling everyone that im keeping him from him!!!! what a tool...so i have sent him messages EVERYDAY being very nice giving him the option to see him and have him over night..that way i have records of giving him the benefit of the doubt..not once in the emails have i ever said you cant see him..i sent him one today asking again..and told him if he wasnt here by 4 tomorrow than i would be calling his mother and letting her know whats going on an giving her the option of seeing payton...i have always gotten along with his mother so i have no prob with that..only god knows what paytons father is saying though!! god why does he have to be such a douchbag..oh than i took it one step further and saw he was telling everyone on his myspace page that i was keeping him away from him..and he had all these girls boo-hooin for him...so i wrote to one girl and told her what was up!!!lol io also told his sister in law..who i still talk to !!! Eventually his family/friends will see he is nothin but a liar and they wont feel bad...im just so sick of being the evil bitch when i am on the other end pushing him to see his son.... i am wondering if this bs will ever come to end....prob not..hes 29 and still acts like a 2 yr old. Sometimes i wish he would run and sign the papers..but he wont because he knows its what i want..but at the same time i want him to take responsibility for what he helped create....everyother weekend when hes able to isnt shit....because he sees him when its good for him..if there are no drinking plans he will se him..but if they come up he will leave my son with his parents... GOD HELP ME BE THE BIGGER AND BETTER PARENT!!

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3 Comments on Baby daddy drama grrr


Mommy-of-4-Bugs - Monday, 18 Jan
Hey- I just found this site and came across your post. I am sorry that you have to be going through all of this, esp being pregnant. A very dear friend of mine (she is actually due w/ her 5th 2 weeks after me) has had her share of crappy guys. But she has finally found a great guy that is there for all of her kids (he is also the father of her 5th). Don't let him make you think that you won't be able to find a great relationship. And be careful. He could be stressing about being a dad (not sure if this is his 1st or not). My husband and I had a lot of problems when I got pregnant w/ our 1st. But many years later, a lot of communicating and trying to see/ understand where he was coming from, we are doing much better, BUT, he never EVER would have locked me out of our home for even a minute. So just please watch for any warning signs that he may escalate in to abuse. Take Care!

kj0406 - Friday, 25 Dec
Hey, I'm feeling ya, I get constant bd drama and I'm sick of being the escape goat for all his shortcomings and uselessness as a dad. I sometimes think, why shouldn't I be the bitch that he paints to me to be. Sod these lowlife excuses of men. We are better than them and their actions will eventually catch up with them. I hope you've had a merry christmas and wish you a very happy, healthy new year.

sudarcy - Thursday, 24 Dec
hey there am pretty new 2 this website n jus read yr blog...awwwwwh bbe,don eva feel the nasty 1 huni,wat kinda father puts himself out there on his my space page neway....and if ne ov the girls av any decency bout themselves theyl see him 4 wat e is.......wild horses shudn keep him frm his son,u drop everythin 4 yr children,u wud lay dwn yr life 4 him.....clearly e wudn frm wat uv sed.....am so sory but it annoys me how us women r always the bitches.....its not really my place 2 pass ne comment,but i jus think u needed sum1 2 giv u a ok yr doin ok chic xxxxxxxx