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10-2-2009 - 11DPO and BFN

My mood while writing this blog: down

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I caved in today and tested 11 DPO and BFN! I thought that I might actually have a positive because fertility friend stated that I possibly have a triphasic chart after I entered my temp today. This could signify pregnancy. Well, not showing up yet! I am due for AF on friday the latest as that would put me at a 32 day cycle and I never go longer than that, and it would make it 14 DPO. I am so disappointed to not see a BFP. Even though this is only my second month of trying, I felt so much like crying this morning ( I know suck it up, I don't know how everyone else does this over and over again for so long!) All I keep thinking about is it will be at least three more weeks until we can try again, and then the dreaded two week wait again! My best friend is expecting, She is five weeks. We had our first DD's seven weeks apart and loved being on mat leave together for a year. We both started trying this time in December and neither one of us new the other one was ttc. We really want to spend our mat leave together again. Our daughters get along well. Our husbands are also great friends. I feel more pressure now that she is already pregnant. They tried for two months. I am very happy for them but still feel a little upset that I am now sharing the experience with her yet. If I got PG this month we would have been two weeks apart. Sorry to sound like such a whiner! I am just feeling sorry for myself today!

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1 Comments on 11DPO and BFN


roosa - Tuesday, 10 Feb
So sorry you didn't get a BFP, but it could still come. I know though what it is like to feel left behind and wanting to be pregnant with your friends. My best friend and I started TTC at the same time. She will give birth any day, I am still waiting for my BFP. I do hope it will happen for you soon.