07-11-2008 - What Happened To Baby Bo

My mood while writing this blog: So Much Love For Him!

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there are a lot of pics of baby Bo on there! and its a somewhat easier way to keep in touch also! So as you all know baby Bo was born on 11-01 at 11:01am. But what I think a lot of you didn’t know was, baby Bo was adopted to a wonderful family. And not like every other adoption you hear about.. This is like the most open adoption you will probably ever hear about. The couple I picked is wonderful, they have been trying for years to get pregnant on their own but were unable to, so they turned to open adoption. And I knew with not having the baby’s daddy in the picture it would be so hard to do things on my own, and be able to give baby Bo everything he needs in life to succeed. Also I feel that this way baby Bo will have so many more options in life.. He will never have to worry about food on the table or clothes on his back. I can see baby Bo whenever I want and me and his family talk either through text, email or on the phone almost everyday since he has been born, they were at the birth and in the room and then Bo’s new mommy and I actually were together in the recovery room together, taking care of Bo and feeding him together, so that Bo could bond with me and bond with her and his new dad. Although I know that it will slow down and not be everyday as he grows older but since right now he is only 6 days old everything is still new for them and for me, we talk a lot. Also this adoption is so open that I am even providing baby Bo with my breast milk so that he is getting all the good things from it so he can grow big and strong. I am so happy with my choice and I hope you all understand why I made this choice. Because this way, a couple that were never able to be parents, get to be parents, I get to be in baby Bo’s life and watch him grow, and I will get to know Bo and he will get to know me. And just its so amazing how everything has worked out. I love John and Loren (his new mommy and daddy) so much, and I love my little baby Bo so much. He truly is amazing! So I hope you don’t judge me for my choice I have made, cause I know in the end this little boy is going to have a wonder life because of the choice I have made, and I will always be in his life. And everyone is so happy with the way this situation has worked out for all of us. So if your still confused on what is going on… go ahead and ask me… I’m truly an open book. I’m just so happy with the way everything has worked out.

Oh and also the best part about Bo coming on 11-01 at 11:01am... Is that his new mommy and daddy went on their first date and met eachother for the first time on 11-01.... 8 years ago, so it can only seem like all this was fate for this new family... meeting for the first time 8 years ago on 11-01 then meeting and completing their family with Bo being born on 11-01 just made me realize how right everything felt in the end!