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	Age: 31 Country: england Province/region: Worsley City: Manchester Partner: anthony Children: Yes, 4 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: estate agent
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26-7-2008 - were to go from here

My mood while writing this blog:
exhausted

Dear Blog (lol)

well this week has to be the worse so far relationship wise, ive just realised that my man really does not giv a fuk about me or his daughter!! Well hey ho life goes on i soppose. Im so mad at myself for staying as long as i have and getting pregnant again it was his idea him pushing an pushing and he was already having an affair?? now im faced with the daunting task of startin all over again with a new baby and no daddy. At least i can rest abit now work was getting to much but on the other hand i love my job im a creature of habits and i hate change!!!! i also have thoughts and dreams that he is goin to die or hve a bad accident whilst reading a txt or sumthing that i hav sent him! pathetic i know but thn i feel guilty and ring to make sure he ok???????????WTF!!

I would love to know why he felt the need for an affair not only that but we have had major work problems and i worked my arse off to get them sorted sutimes workin really late and all the time he was with her.

I thought i could get over it an we could move on but he is being such a bstard he is making it impossible for me! i refused to got work today and he accused me of f**kin the business up ???/

why are things so complicated?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

6 Comments on were to go from here

K~teaNewMommy - Tuesday, 29 Jul
ugh that truly sucks.... are you two tryin to work things out or will you just give up
i hate men sometimes

wilsonwilson - Monday, 28 Jul
Hi sweetie, You have a few phases to go through before acceptance of it all, and I would like you to know I am here for you. No one likes change at all especially the older we get we seem to get stuck into routine. I have been where you are and have gone through what you are going through and it is not pleasant and get ready for the bitter angry side which can't be helped.

You be you, I think you are great and I feel lucky to have met you on here and is his loss and a gain for someone who does not cheat on you, there are people out there who will love you and your children so do not worry about the future and live one day at a time *hugs* Kat xoxoxo

Yada - Monday, 28 Jul
Well Danii, Its not surprising to hear that he is doing what he is doing. He has done other things that hurt you and you tried to work thru it and its not working. Now its only one thing else to do and thats you know what. I nor anybody else can tell you what to do or how to feel this is your situation and one that you nor any of us should ever be in but you know like I know that some people are just assholes, selfish and just dont give a fuk so baby girl its up to you to make a new move. Yeah your pregnant and all but that should never take away from you doing what will and can make you happy. He should no longer be a factor its about you and the baby now.

liz82 - Monday, 28 Jul
i am here if you need a friend .

vanessag7 - Sunday, 27 Jul
Hi babes, I'm sorry your man is still being a total pillock. Poor girl, to be pregnant to an asshole is not nice but your the winner in the end and you get a gorgeous baby out of it. Sure it will be hard at first but you know you can do it, your a mum and a woman, there is nothing you cant do.
Sometimes its hard for us to do the things we need to do, we are selfless and forgiving for the most part but you need to do whats right for you babes, no mater what anyone else tells you. You know your stronger than you give yourself credit for and I know your going to be ok no matter what happens xxxxx

jenadamandbaby - Saturday, 26 Jul
we are all here for you and yes, it will be very hard but i think staying with him would just be the wrong thing to do. cheating is the most unforgiveable thing and he obviously doesn't care at all. screw him. pack up and leave and take all his money! he couldn't be more a jerk and you don't deserve that in the slightest, neither do your children. change is very hard. i'm afraid of change also but there is something (someone) out there so much better for you and you will find it (him!) you are a good looking, kind, caring, cool person and just from his picture, he doesn't seem all the wonderful at all!!! stay strong and focus on the baby and your other children. Your happiness and their happiness is what's important!

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