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17-5-2009 - What do i do??

My mood while writing this blog: Confused

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I honestly dont know what is going on with me just now. I dont know if its just my emotions with being pregnant but i feel like i dont want to be with DF anymore. Im not sure if its to do with what he put me through when i was pregnant last time and im trying to protect myself. Everytime he shows affection to me, hes always got an agenda ie sex and i would just like to be affectionate and thats it sometimes! Is that so bad? Im going through alot just now and i hate feeling like im just sex to him. I should mean more than that right? He doesnt even think about being romantic....i mean, i have to ask him to be romantic!! Never cooks me meals, nothing. and i dont want that all the time.....just once in a blue moon would be nice!! I run around after Pearce all day and im carrying his second child and i want to feel appreciated and loved. Its like he feels that after nearly 4 years together he doesnt have to try anymore, that hes got me and thats that. I just dont know what to do....i do love him but i hate feeling like this. Hes trying where our son and baby are concerned but forgetting about me and us. When we have our family days and its all about us, its amazing and i really enjoy being with him. Maybe im expecting too much?? Im so confused. I try and talk to him but you know what men are like....they get so defensive sometimes and i just get frustrated and we just end up arguing and i dont want that. I need some advice....i only have you ladies to talk to about this. I really want us to be a family but i want me and DF to be a couple

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1 Comments on What do i do??


MackValdez - Tuesday, 26 May
WOW. It is hard to comment on this subject... Every relationship is different. I am sorry you are having a rough time.... Life is too short to be unhappy and under-appreciated. I know not all men are lilke that as my husband is a God-send. I am very sorry to hear the trouble....