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23-7-2008 - kinda scary

My mood while writing this blog: nervous

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Ok so last night me and the bf were at the movies enjoying a great movie and then on the way out I stopped at the bathroom.....omg! blood! Soooo yes, needless to say I was extremely nervous and scared! The bf wanted to take me to the emergency room right away but I thought since it wasn't like gushing out I would go home, relax and think about what I wanted to do. I layed down and thought about all that I had read about bleeding in the first trimester. So I decided to wait and see if the bleeding stopped or slowed down on its own and then call the docs in the morning. So this morning it was just brownish discharge that was happening. I debated a long time before calling the doc. Well, my doc (love her) said to come in this afternoon so she can take a quick look - just to make sure since I've already had a second trimester miscarraige. So she did a quick u/s and we saw the baby moving and the little heart beat was fast! So she said thats really all she could do for me right now since I'm only just 11 weeks. Ok a little relief..............but not for long.......
So then me and the bf go eat some lunch and do some grocery shopping. We come home and I go to the bathroom and WTH??? There is a dark (blackish) color discharge and when I wipe there is like an inch big blood clot looking thing on the paper and a few other little clots all blackish color!! omg!! So me and the bf are kinda freaking out thinking maybe I'm miscarrying. So I call my poor doc again.....and she says that becasuse it is blackish color that means that it is old blood and probably came from the bleed before and I'm just getting rid of the clot now. She suggested just to decrease activity and take it easy til I see the perinatal specialist next week. So, a little relief for a while.......but, I don't know how much more I can handle. I mean, I'm already worried all the time because of losing my baby the last time and now to complicate everything with bleeding, clots, etc. etc. ugh!! Well I guess I'm going to have to try and relax and let God handle business!! So my mood has went from a little frantic to a little nervous.....progress I guess! lol I just CANNOT wait until the perinatal appointment next week!! It seems like sooooo far away!! patience my dear, patience!!!

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6 Comments on kinda scary


chips - Saturday, 26 Jul
I asked my midwife! she said that some women, bleed on and off all through pregnancy sweetie
so take it easy and do not worry.......rest and stay positive..........I know it is hard to do !
but I am here to talk when ever you like
god bless you both
bighug

liz82 - Thursday, 24 Jul
how are you feeling today ?

TanyaT - Wednesday, 23 Jul
Wow...that is scary...I think if you get plenty of rest and take it easy it will help. I know it is hard but try not to worry too much...easier said than done but I think you will be just fine:)

natty1982 - Wednesday, 23 Jul
Sweetie I know how hard that can be! Hang in there. You and your lil one are in my thoughts.

minkymoo78 - Wednesday, 23 Jul
You poor thing. What a worry it must be. I really hope everything works out ok for you. Just relax and let your partner do everything for you. Please keep me updated xx

sofia - Wednesday, 23 Jul
I am sorry you are going through this. I do not know if this would help, but I had that type of bleeding twice already with this pregnancy and so far the baby is ok. It helped me a lot to rest but I did worry like crazy too...please try to rest. I will keep you in my prayers.