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03-7-2009 - SEX after birth???

My mood while writing this blog: Curious

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Hello Ladies,

I have my BEAUTIFUL baby boy on the 23rd of June, I had a vaginal birth with no pain relief and I didn't tear at all, I have COMPLETELY stopped bleeding all together even my brownish discharge has stopped, I feel like I am back to normal and me and DH is dying to have sex again since it seem like its been FOREVER since we have had REAL sex with no baby between us, so ladies do you all think it's too soon??? Should I wait 6 weeks? My body seem like its okay to go ahead and have sex.... ( I know this blog is a little TMI) but... I really need to know.


My blessing goes to all of my TTC, New mothers, and Expecting mothers.

Thank you all so much in advance for your help!

))))HUGS((((
Kia

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12 Comments on SEX after birth???


kelly5150rn - Saturday, 15 Aug
I'm assuming from your latest message that yall decided to start having sex again! LOL I'm Irish & when you have two babies less than a year apart they call them irish twins. Good luck & I know you will be fine. I'm very envious of your situation. I would like to get pregnant again now too but my doctor wants me to wait.

neitha - Thursday, 9 Jul
hey pookie its been 4 weeks for me and i dont had sex 3 times already hell i am a cancer we love to have sex it was a lil uncomfortable but hey i couldnt wait but ithink you should

JamieGarcia - Wednesday, 8 Jul
Girl I'm in the same boat as you, no pain relief, no tears or anything. Hubby and i waited till 4 weeks and have been going at it ever since. It is soooo nice to be close again!

Jmajor-payne - Tuesday, 7 Jul
No ma'am, I would wait the 6 weeks weeks u may feel fine but internally your body needs this time to heal itself and close properly...I would wait till your 6 week appt which will be like the 1st in Aug right? U are VERY fertile right now and I would hate come Aug and ur OB says u are pregnant again!! Happened to me, i was in denial for months LOL but this is TMI give him sum oral gratification! and hopefully this will hold him for a few more weeks!! GOOD LUCK

gwendalyne - Monday, 6 Jul
Hey girl...I would wait the 6 weeks, just to make sure everything is good, as well as birth control, if you guys aren't planning another one right away...go to your six weeks check up and pregnant again lol

fortysomething - Sunday, 5 Jul
Don't do it. You must wait until the doctor says you can. I know its torture, but you could easily get an infection. You don't want that. Even sex with a condom isn't advised. Tough it out and wait just a little longer (til the recommended amount of weeks) Besides, you don't want to get pregnant a month or 2 after giving birth now do you? No tearing? Good for you. I wish. They had to cut me with all my kids, which is why I'm still scared of childbirth. Good luck with the sex thing.

kelly5150rn - Sunday, 5 Jul
I know what you mean... I had Max the same day as you with no tears either & I've been horny as hell! unfortunately I still have a little bleeding. But once it stops its on!!!! Six weeks is too long...

mrsscorpio - Saturday, 4 Jul
Um, I think you should probably wait the six weeks, I would follow the doctor's directions. Wouldn't want you to bust something open while you gettin busy. I'm sure your DH will understand...give him a hand job or something

Legacy of the Trinity - Saturday, 4 Jul
I feel the same way you do. I did tear but it has healed and I am so ready to have sex again. I am holding back though and going to get the clearance from doc at the pp visit. We cant see whats in there so its safe to let them look up there and let us know that everything is A OK.

urnaa - Saturday, 4 Jul
Hehe. you should wait 6 weeks. and after my first we waited 6 weeks and it was very dry at first. Needed lil bit suitable oil hehe.

miraclebaby24 - Friday, 3 Jul
wow...sex already???? I sincerely applaud your enthusiasm to jump back into the swing of things so early. I hope I have your energy and tenacity for sex after I give birth....I say check with your doctor, can't go wrong there

millycallum - Friday, 3 Jul
hey hun i think you will be fine just take it easy my first birth was like yours no pain releif no tearing or anything and you do feel better much quicker. just be really carefull my mother in law had her 1st baby and was told at her 6 week post natal appointment that she was pregnant again!!!!! much love and congrats on the birth of your little lad xxxx