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11-11-2008 - Mad as hell/ Called a \

My mood while writing this blog:
PISSED

Ladies I feel ashamed blogging about this, take it, in just my previous blog I talked about how good my soon to be hubby was... Well my mother always said “don’t give a person too much praise because that’s when they disappoint you.”

Well ladies today while I'm in the ER getting IV fluids pumped in me due to my lack of ability to contain food, I get a text from my "man" first asking did I get pregnant intentionally, then another text saying that he feels as if I got pregnant just to get his "money" take it, this is the same man that was on cloud 9, So I'm like are you bi-polar. WHAT THE FUCK!!! and I dont even curse but his ass pissed me off so much. I was SOOOO mad, that I told the nurse to take the IV out and I left and said bump everything. I cried all day to my sister and she told me to leave him for making me feel like this while I'm pregnant with his child.

RECAP on me being called a "GOLD DIGGER"

I have my own place (that I own)/My own car (that I own)/ A career that pays me very well/ Saving out the ass that he's clearly aware of/ Not to mention that I spent over a thousand dollars today on him for his birthday on the 21st which will all be return to the stores first thing in the morning.

Ladies help me out, should I leave him??? He would pull this while I'm pregnant..BASTARD!!!

7 Comments on Mad as hell/ Called a \

Super Mom - Wednesday, 28 Jan
Ima keep it real with you..Nobody realy can't say break up with him you the only one that can make that choice.Cause if you do listen to someone and break up with him then in the long run you goung feel bad.But i think he was wrong for what he said.Yall just need to talk.But take it easy and try not to be stress about nothing.

fabo-preggolady22 - Sunday, 16 Nov
idk what it is but they just start acting up when we get pregnant. he's probably scared and instead of dealing w/ it he blames things on you, but you didn't knock yourself up did you?!!! My bf started acting funny when i started showing a lot, guess he was finally realizing "this is really happening" and that's how he chose to deal. But i don't think you should leave him, even though i know that's exactly what you feel like doing right now! just talk about his fears and try to be patient w/o letting him take it too far and upsetting you too much. Good luck hunnie! and congrats, keep us updated!:)

prettyjojo - Sunday, 16 Nov
Relationships are going to go through its ups and downs. Give him a chance. Once we women become pregnant, we automatically start taking on the role as "mother" Men usually don't start "caring" or getting involved until they start to see you show. I'm not saying that he does not care. IF you feel deep down that he really cares and loves you and your baby don't leave him.. He is just being a man....not knowing what to say !!! (SMILE) Prayers and blessings

sarahann - Wednesday, 12 Nov
Oh, how that hurts! I'm not the best person to offer advice, but I want you to know that I'm thinking of you and I hope it all works out for the best. Put yourself and your baby first, look after yourself. He's old enough and big enough to take some responsibility, so ignore him and leave him to it, and hopefully soon he will wake up and realise what is at stake here. He could have a lovely little family, or he could lose everything he has. It's up to him, but you need to support yourself and baby both emotionally and physically. Take care.

simplydevine82 - Wednesday, 12 Nov
He could possibly got scared thinking about all the responsiblity he is about to face, its a transition and most men have to let it sink in. My sons father went through his little faze but then came back to reality. I say dont break it off yet unless you see that its not going to work and trust me you will know when it gets that bad.

Baby1one - Wednesday, 12 Nov
What is wrong with some men? It is as though they focus on the money and not the little person we are creating inside of us.
Unbelievable! I agree with Expecting greatness and i too have been there recently. Not with someone i was heavily involved with but still the same &%$# different pile.
You deserve so much better and so does your baby to be. Any boy can create a baby but it takes a man to raise one!
Keep strong and do what is right for you and your baby!

JamieGarcia - Wednesday, 12 Nov
Hmm. What would I do? Be proud, strong, and happy..all by my damn self. I think some people take us for granted untill we leave. I believe he is acting a fool right now, but once he sees you growing, glowing and happy all by yourself, it will bring out the real him. He will either man up and get his shit together or walk away with his tail between his legs. And please, don't say "bump it". You, and your baby, are more important than any person that would talk to you like that. It is not worth putting the baby last (leaving the er) because of him. He does not deserve the ability to have that type of an emotonial effect on you, atleast while he is acting like this. I hope one of his friend's didn't put this idea in his head. I hope he opens his eyes soon, but untill then stay strong, talk (I'm always here) and keep being your wonderful self :)

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