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14-6-2009 - BIGGEST argument EVER!!!!

My mood while writing this blog:
Pissed the f^ck OFF!

Hello Ladies,

I had to get on to VENT! Today I'm at home laying down (what I do most of the day due to my SUPER big stomach) and my husband come home and says I just bought a new truck, so I instantly jump up not out of excitement but like wtf?? And why??? so I look out the window and it’s a f^cking BRAND new Range Rover he spent over $80k on, I was sooo pissed, I'm not working and we decided that I wouldn't work until our son was at least two or three years old, so I'm like "why did you buy a truck, and why you didn't tell me anything?" and he just very sarcastically states "I'm a grown man that works hard for my money and deserves to treat myself, and I didn't tell you because I knew you was going to bitch like you are now" OMG!!! I'm heated,,, I mean I'm ready to literally punch him in the face! I start crying and just going crazy throwing all of our stuff and telling him I want to go home and leave ALL OF THIS CRAP!!! Take it we just moved into a brand new home and I'M NOT WORKING!!!!! He's the only one working! He IS SOOOOO STUPID AND SUCH A MAN!!! Ladies so after about 3 hours I calmed down, I text him how much will the monthly note be (since he walked out of the house when I was in rage) I sat down and calculated all of our bills (not including baby things and emergency money) and after we pay all of our bills each month we would be left with $22.36, I told him that once he got home and he smirked and said "seems like someone is going back to work" I was so pissed! He was like since you a teacher it want be hard for you to find a job here,, that’s not the point,, I wouldn’t have to work if you didn’t put an EXTRA $1200 car note on us! I'm just thinking about leaving him and going back home to my family to have my baby.

I so dont need this, I am two weeks or less away from having our first child

Sorry ladies but I been crying and had to vent, I'm to embarrassed to even call my family right now, take it we just got married and don’t want them to know I married and pregnant by such a childish stupid man.

Kia

16 Comments on BIGGEST argument EVER!!!!

1Byfaith - Thursday, 18 Jun
Wow!! This is a tough one. We are all here for support but don't count your family out either, they love you and now that you have moved away you need their support as well. I hope this works out for you, this is a horrible way to start out a new marriage with priorities being this mixed up. God Bless

Msdee219 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
oh girl I am soo sorry he is acting this way, girl men are so dumb some times, Sean is selfish at times I just hate it , He is always saying how I need to hurry up and finish school so I can take care us WTF? i'M NOT TAKING CARE OF US ! I truly think they sit on their brain!!! He also makes sure that I know he pays all the bills still even though he is laid off, ummm excuse me you get a serverence package so it's like your still getting paid!!! Like I'm not trying at all! ugh ! Sorry he is beening that why and I hope he gets some sense back and I wouldn't go back to work!!!!

RainbowRach - Wednesday, 17 Jun
oh hunny ((big hug)) I am so sorry to hear this. He has got his stupid man head on and is nothing thinking about the consequences. Everyone has a cooling down period after taking out finance, get his ass back to the garage and make him take it back!

Jmajor-payne - Tuesday, 16 Jun
OH HELL NAW...NOW THATS SOME SHYT HE WOULD HAVE TO SLEEP IN THAT DAMN TRUCK TO MAKE SURE I WOULDN'T F*CK IT UP, OR NO HE WOULD HAVE TOOK THAT TRUCK BACK THAT DAY, GIRL I'M SO MAD FOR U, I WAS TELLN MY BOO THAT'S A DEF NO GO!! HIS PRIORITIES R 2 MIXED UP! HE CAN'T TREAT HIMSELF NO MORE ITS ABOUT THE BABY AND WHAT HE NEEDS!!! IM SO SORRY MISS

dinahmite425 - Monday, 15 Jun
well i say dont go to work because you all agreeed.. plus being that ou were not there when he bought the car you arent on the car so you have no obligation to paying it just him so let him figure out how to pay the note he is liable so if it doent get paied guess what it doent afect you just his credi so let him suffer but dont go to work if you to agreed let the car get repoed

babytaisha4u - Monday, 15 Jun
That's is bizarre.. Why would he buy something w/o knowin that in the long run it won't be worth it..look at the fight u 2 just got into and the bills have sky rocket and yet he isn't thinkin..sry girl

Legacy of the Trinity - Monday, 15 Jun
wow. he was definitely not thinking about anything at all! So then you have to go back to work to pay for his car. Then you will have to pay for childcare because you won't be home. A husband is supposed to make those types of decisions with his wife. He is definitely in the DOG HOUSE.

chocolate mami - Monday, 15 Jun
Definitely sound likes his priorities was in the wrong place...very inconsiderate not to even try to see how it would effect the future with baby and stuff...he has 30 days right...he should get something else...sit him down and tell him what's up again on bills and taking care of business with his family...even tho he should no what's up...some men need to be told over and over.....ya'll suppose to be in it together...I hope ya'll able to work something out..but he was totally out of line

gwendalyne - Monday, 15 Jun
I'm sorry to hear that girl...you don't need this right now. I would tell him how you really feel b/c he did make an agreement with you and he just can't go back on his word...

expecting-2b-patient - Monday, 15 Jun
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this NOW! I mean, you're about to deliever a baby at any moment and he throws this on you!? I remember you guys did have an agreement if you moved out of state with him. He is not keeping his end of it! I'd tell him maybe you guys can meet half way. He gives the vehicle back (you do have 7days) and gets a cheaper one. This way he'll have a different "toy" and you guys will have extra money. I am hoping that things work out for you. Just keep reminding him that you took him by his word, and it isn't far you you or HIS CHILD! Let him know that with this "new toy" he has bought for HIMSELF HIS child will be the one loosing out on things! See if that suits him... Lots of Luck hun! Let us know if things clear up, and you need to try to relax, you'll put yourself into labor!!

kelly5150rn - Monday, 15 Jun
I feel your pain & frustration...I hope it will work out.

Linz88 - Sunday, 14 Jun
omg that is so inconsiderate.. men can me the worst.. i hope u work things out though x

mckrush - Sunday, 14 Jun
id either be sending my husband to a second job until it was paid off or id be divorcing him

shanidm - Sunday, 14 Jun
wow thats a big thing to do without his wife's input. Thats a hell of a ar note too! Leave it in God's hands, it'll work itself out. Talk to your hubby when your calm to exaplin your logical thinking. Wishing you well!

mizzkeisha - Sunday, 14 Jun
Dam!! I would be beyond pissed at some crazy crap like that. That's the exact type of crap, my ex-husband used to do and that's exactly why he's my EX!! I'm in no way suggesting that you make him your ex, but you need to make sure he knows exactly how you feel about this. That's some real disrespectful shit!! I'm with Canadian Mom, I am sending you a bat to knock him over his head and maybe knock some sense into him!!

brendalee - Sunday, 14 Jun
Seriously?? If my hubby did that I'd kick his ass out and make him get a second job. How did he get approved without your signature too? And it's not like he bought a normal car...RANGE ROVER?? Wtf?

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