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8 Comments on Autopsy results
KrzyK1174 - Wednesday, 11 Nov
I'm so glad you got an answer! I know it can't fix your heart but hopefully it'll bring some sort of closure for you. I haven't seen the pictures of Finley, but I'm sure he was just fine. The dr should never had said anything like that especially if they found no other problems. It's not like there's a 'cookie cutter' for each stage of development! Not everyones ears are set perfect to begin with! Finley was still growing for cryin out loud! You should have told him (the dr) his eyes were too far apart! All kidding aside...I wish you luck for the future and I'll keep you in my prayers. Oh btw...I read that poem on your home page...what a beautiful poem...a tear jerker but beautiful!
RainbowRach - Monday, 9 Nov
((big hug)) I hope this brings you the peace you are seeking. As for the comment on how Finley looked, that is bullsh*t, he was your boy and he was beautiful. I know he will be remembered as perfect in your memory forever x
min41 - Thursday, 5 Nov
Don't even go down there hun. Your boy was beautiful and will always be a beautiful angel. So happy for your BFP.
CarminaK - Thursday, 5 Nov
Hi! I'm glad that you and your family are finally going to have some kind of answer. Its not going to heal your hearts, but it may help heal your minds. I hope you are doing well today. I would love to see Finley's pictures on facebook...Look me up, Carmina Keyser. Hugs and Love to you today. :)
bexstarr01 - Thursday, 5 Nov
I am so pleased that the results were the same that helped you make the decision you did., You can now be at peace you made the right one. Hugs. x
Pocahontas - Wednesday, 4 Nov
*super big huge hug* Relieved with you Jayne. - L
firsttimer - Wednesday, 4 Nov
Jayne I'm so relieved for you as well. You had to make such a tough decision, and now you have the proof that it was the right one. I can't say forget the comments about how Finley looked in other ways, because I know these are the kind of things that stay with you. Sometimes people in the medical profession should be reminded to keep their unnecessary comments to themselves. I haven't seen Finlay's picture, but I can only imagine how beautiful he was. Remember him like that forever. x
mandypoo - Wednesday, 4 Nov
hun, as i said on FB he is and always will be beautiful xxx
| 04-11-2009 - Autopsy results |  My mood while writing this blog:ok |
Hi everyone,
Hope you are all doing ok.
We got Finley's autopsy results today and much to my relief the doctor said his heart was as bad as they thought... I had been so worried they would say it wasn't and that it could of been fixed! She said that he probably wouldn't have survived if we had of continued with the pregnancy.
One thing that really upset me though was that although they said there were no other problems the report said that his face was mildly abnormal (?) and his ears were low set!!
I am actually pretty pissed off by that, to me he was my beautiful boy.. I have pictures of him on facebook as I am not allowed to post them on here so only the few of you that I am friends with on there have seen them but I am pretty sure that he looks the same as any baby born at 22 weeks..
Thank you to all of you that replied to my BFP message earlier today, I appreciate it :)
Love Jayne xx
8 Comments on Autopsy results
KrzyK1174 - Wednesday, 11 Nov
I'm so glad you got an answer! I know it can't fix your heart but hopefully it'll bring some sort of closure for you. I haven't seen the pictures of Finley, but I'm sure he was just fine. The dr should never had said anything like that especially if they found no other problems. It's not like there's a 'cookie cutter' for each stage of development! Not everyones ears are set perfect to begin with! Finley was still growing for cryin out loud! You should have told him (the dr) his eyes were too far apart! All kidding aside...I wish you luck for the future and I'll keep you in my prayers. Oh btw...I read that poem on your home page...what a beautiful poem...a tear jerker but beautiful!
RainbowRach - Monday, 9 Nov
((big hug)) I hope this brings you the peace you are seeking. As for the comment on how Finley looked, that is bullsh*t, he was your boy and he was beautiful. I know he will be remembered as perfect in your memory forever x
min41 - Thursday, 5 Nov
Don't even go down there hun. Your boy was beautiful and will always be a beautiful angel. So happy for your BFP.
CarminaK - Thursday, 5 Nov
Hi! I'm glad that you and your family are finally going to have some kind of answer. Its not going to heal your hearts, but it may help heal your minds. I hope you are doing well today. I would love to see Finley's pictures on facebook...Look me up, Carmina Keyser. Hugs and Love to you today. :)
bexstarr01 - Thursday, 5 Nov
I am so pleased that the results were the same that helped you make the decision you did., You can now be at peace you made the right one. Hugs. x
Pocahontas - Wednesday, 4 Nov
*super big huge hug* Relieved with you Jayne. - L
firsttimer - Wednesday, 4 Nov
Jayne I'm so relieved for you as well. You had to make such a tough decision, and now you have the proof that it was the right one. I can't say forget the comments about how Finley looked in other ways, because I know these are the kind of things that stay with you. Sometimes people in the medical profession should be reminded to keep their unnecessary comments to themselves. I haven't seen Finlay's picture, but I can only imagine how beautiful he was. Remember him like that forever. x
mandypoo - Wednesday, 4 Nov
hun, as i said on FB he is and always will be beautiful xxx
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