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10-12-2009 - what was the point? silent miscarrage or not????? very confusedMy mood while writing this blog:
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as some of your know i was diagnosed with a missed miscarrage on monday, following this i was offered d and c. obviously i wanted to make sure that this diagnosis is correct before the d and c, so i phoned the early pregnancy unit, i thought they would offer me another scan in a week or so but no i was told the first thing they wanted to do was another blood test to see if my hcg had risen or gone down from saturdays result. so off i went on tuesday for my blood test, where i was told by the nurse not to get my hopes up if the hcg rises because in 'missed miscarrages' your body still thinks your pregnant therfore can still produce hormones to support the pregnancy!!! so whats the bloody point i thought!!!! this just gives me 'false hope'. anyhoo i called EPU today for results and the machine message says closed till monday!!!! wtf.....so i called my GP and she called back with the information that my HCG HAS RISEN!! so basically im back to square 1. and to make things worse i have to wait till EPU is open ON MONDAY, before i can take this any further....im so worried about the risk of infection if this is a failing pregancy i just dunno what to do any more :(



12 Comments on what was the point? silent miscarrage or not?????


jess6009 - Sunday, 13 Dec
have you got the results yet?? i'm praying for u

julybaby28 - Thursday, 10 Dec
That is nuts. Well I'm glad you didn't have the d&c done. Did you google anything regarding rising HCG levels in a miscarriage?

mabarmywife - Thursday, 10 Dec
wow, what a way to throw you for a loop!! I can't imagine, but I will be praying really hard for you and your family, that someone made a mistake....hang in there honey!!! Miracles do happen =)

bluejeans - Thursday, 10 Dec
I read a previous post and I agree could you go for a private scan? It absolute crap that can just make you wait around for something so important. Let me know how you go

claire-charge - Thursday, 10 Dec
hun i would go and pay for a private scan tommorrow x

tattooedmomma - Thursday, 10 Dec
I can understand your frustration, I think I would be completely loosing it! What I do when I want quick answers is head to the ER. I just tell them I'm in pain and worried, and they give me an ultrasound right away. I'm in Canada though, don't know if they do the same thing where you are. My thoughts are with you and keep us posted!

kanga - Thursday, 10 Dec
I am so sorry... I have been living something similar for about a week and a half now. The good news is that they did see your baby and who knows, the measurements are not an exact science!!! All the information I have been reading says you should wait at least 2 weeks and have another ultrasound! And yes you are right the HCG results are pointless and I HATE the fact that they even draw more! Hang in there and I wish you the best. You are in my prayers!

Lisa-and-Jason - Thursday, 10 Dec
Don't worry about infection hun. If this is a missed miscarraige, and you haven't had any bleeding, then your cervix is still closed. Ask your doc for a second scan to ease your fears. in most cases they understand. I hope all works out for you! I went through the exact same thing last year, but at 12 weeks. If you have any questions or if I can help ease some fears, don't hesitate to message me!

sharkey - Thursday, 10 Dec
i wish u luck hun please god everything works out for you let yous know how u get on id go back to the hostipal and demand them to do a scan see wats going on

lm09 - Thursday, 10 Dec
Oh, i dont know what to say. It's good and bad in a way but like you said, you dont want to get your hopes up. Good luck with everything.

beverleyfox - Thursday, 10 Dec
oh hun cant imagine wat your going through at the moment thinking of you x

babybellybliss - Thursday, 10 Dec
keep your chin up, i cant imagine what you are going through right now or how scared you must be, but just remember stay positive and strong! good luck and my thoughts will be with you.
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