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15-4-2009 - would you be mad?

My mood while writing this blog:
indifferent

this is a conversation between someone i used to be friends with. we have grown apart because i just never really liked her attitude... tell me what you think about this conversation, (ie. she had just found out i was pregnant and we hadnt talked in maybe eight months)

her part:

how did this even happen with all the available contraceptives the morning after pill birth control condoms?? are u ready for this life long full time job of giving 110% of your self to someone else that is going to be dirty smelly needy loud and selfish? babies are a huge deal and they are super expensive i hope you and your boyfriend are financially stable to take care of this child....are you going to marry this guy? do you live with him now? you better have quit smoking and drinking and he better not smoke anything around you....if your not already get on prenatal vitamins and modify your diet any thing you ingest your giving to the baby as well...if your taking any medications verify with your doctor or pharamacist if they are safe during pregnancy if you did not already and just understand the commitment and the life style changes your about to make and face...your younfg carefree life has officially ended and i hope you love the guy your dating because your tied to him for the next 18 years....i am just concerned and i think you totally feel off your rocker with this one but good luck and thats crazy with robin 2 babies damn glad its not me....
anyways enough exploding for now...seany and that jen chick broke up hes back with julia and im gonna assume they will eventually become serious and get married....
max and i are still dating we have our ups and downs the distance thing is hard sometimes but we will make it through im sure...i have 3 years and 1 month left of pharmacy when i get out i will have my pharmd and there is a significant chance i will move on to medical school after pharmacy school but well see max is going to start his first year of dental school this upcoming summer at temple when i come home in may i will be living with him in philly should be interesting and fun
maybe ill see you when i come home again in the end of may good luck and take care yourself because its not just about you anymore

heres my reply

Hillary Rossell

Today at 6:46pm

man i thought having a baby was a walk in the park and all shits and giggles, you know after three years old i can leave them home alone? yes i know the responsibility of a baby, do you think im retarted? maybe you do. things happen, no i wasnt on contraceptiveit wasnt planned but this is something i wanted. i've been ready to have a baby for a while and i wanted to start my familly with michael. it may not be the life you would want to live, but it is something that i want. and i know i will be a great mom. and care free life? since i've been with michael i dont do drugs i dont go out and party basically we hang out with our familly and do things with his son. yes im going to marry him. yes we live together. i've been on prenatal vitamins since a week after i knew i was pregnant. i dont smoke any more and the last alcoholic drink i had was january 14th, it was michaels birthday, i concieved a few days after that. like i said im not much of a drinker. im the pickiest eater in the world, but i have given up and started eating vegetables even though they are totally gross. but its not about my taistes any more now is it. i have doctor appointmens every four weeks. we arnt rich but we have enough that our baby will have everything he/she needs or ever wants. i know your just concerned but calm down, everything will be fine. we will be great parents. yes there will be struggles and we will have our ups and downs, but this baby will have all the love and guidance he/she needs...

yeah i heard about sean and jen through jimmy, i saw him at walmart. its good he got away from her, not that we kept in touch but i knew from what i heard he just wasnt the same any more. your mom tells me he seems back to his old self. him and julia always had something, so if they got married i wouldnt be surprised, its probably meant to be ya know. good luck with school and everything.

i just know her and the way she thinks.. she cant be happy about anything.. am i over reacting? how do you think my response was?

5 Comments on would you be mad?

jadestar - Friday, 29 May
That girl sounds like a young lady who are responsible, very mature, a good friend, very smart and like she's going places. I wish she can give that exact repetoire to some kids (yes, kids) who desperately needs a reality check on this website. I wish u all the best and i hope it all turns out the way you have it in your mind's eye. And to answer your question: NO. I wouldn't be mad. I would sit and think about what she said. If somebody told me what your friend told you before i got pregnant with my daughter, things might not have been better today for me, but it definitely would have been better for my unborn child. Anyway,thats just my opinion. Goodluck.

gr8scottswife - Tuesday, 12 May
To me, she was concerned and since she had not seen you in a while, she did not know the grown up you, so she was questioning on assumption. Her approach was totally wrong. Before she began interrogating you, she should have invited you out for coffee or lunch or something to get a better feel of what is going on in your life at the present time. She certainly could have asked questions without the underlying assumptions. Instead of asking if you are taking prenatals and launching into a sermon, she should have suggested a brand or asked what brand you are taking. To me, it would seem like you would be using them since you've seen a doctor. The doctor would have told you get get some.

Your response--personally, you defended yourself too much. I either would have let it go and not replied or I would have said something casual like "Everything's great, and I've never felt better. Thanks for caring." Her type will drive you crazy with questions. Even though you've answered them, she'll have her input and more questions. She'll not stop hounding you because you've given her a little bait to nibble on. Give her nothing, and she won't gnaw on you.

hillaryandmikesbaby - Thursday, 16 Apr
haha she replied, i didnt mean to go crazy on you.. . i just know how you used to be.. its like wow.. you saw me once in eight months and probably not for a year before that... its like arnt you the one that was addicted to cocain? yeah when we hung out i was 19 years old and really into the party scene, i wonder if she ever heard of people growing up?

clare 20 - Wednesday, 15 Apr
you were so not over reacting, with my hormones all over the place at the moment, if i had a friend who said that to me i would of said worse. Im nearly 21 and 28weeks pregnant. I do hairdressing and get some clients who think its ok to say whatever nasty things they want. i just think its really rude for people to judge pregnant women.

OKaylaO - Wednesday, 15 Apr
Personally, I would have been so rude to her. But I love the way you were sarcastic. Seriously, like you didn't know all of this before she told you. What kind of idiot wouldn't know to see a doctor and take prenatals? Hmm, the people in our lovely world. You said she "used" to be your friend, so who does she think she is to step back in your life and tell you what YOU need to be doing? It's YOUR life, NOT hers, enjoy it and live the way you want. Good luck with your pregnancy.

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