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| 09-3-2009 - The X's........ |  My mood while writing this blog:angry/sad |
Hey Ladies,
Just finished the weekend of the X's.... My God this was a long and hard weekend. I am very much feeling all the signs of pregnancy and I needed a glass of wine this weekend.... My x showed up and wanted to see my 4 and 5 year old... They had not seen him in a year.... and as always he came with drama..... The decree clearly states he must give his address and phone number... he refused to give it to me or the police officer that he called. So I refused to let kids go with him on Friday. It was a true "Madae Goes To Jail" moment.... I'm ain't affraid of the poe poes... :0 Anyway on Saturday he shows up again with his girlfriend, (by the way her and her ex husband were in our wedding) Her husband was my x's best man.... Okay lets leave the set of Jerry Springer for a moment.
On Saturday she gives me the address and phone number. So I let them Go..... Wrong Wrong Wrong..... We all agree that she will drop off kids at my home at 6 pm on Sunday... It is Sunday and 5 pm I call the girlfriend and ask to confirm kids at 6 at my house right.... She says correct running a little late but on my way. Ok well 6 came then 6:30 no kids. So I call the police. Well we try to track him down and he finally shows up at the Police station at 7:00 with the kids.....
I totally flip out on the police to the point my husband makes me wait in the Car. I told them Don't ever knock on my door trying to get my kids to go with their father if they won't make sure they are return just as safe and on time. I later said I was sorry, to the police, for yelling but I did mean it.
So Ladies should I let the kids go next time with him or should I just say no.... and go back to court.... My x got scared of my husband and started making excuses.... My X is a coward with men he just likes to bully women. But I just hate the drama... And my X is all about Drama
4 Comments on The X's........
bellas-mum - Monday, 9 Mar
i would go see a solicitor a year with no contact,no way would i just be handing the kids over.
with out little girl her mother hasnt seen her since her 5th birthday(a year ago in Jan)then didnt phone for 8 mths then gets her BF rang to see if we would let our daughter see her mother,her father n I agreed phone contact as in court orders(3xs a week)to establish contact again n we will see how that works b4 saying yes to contact,well the calls we had 2 calls one for her birthday then 1 cal 2 days later then no call since Jan,she rings a few weeks after n asking to see her daughter.told her to get her act together 1st then we will go back to court,
Its just not good enough to come/ring when they feel like it,it needs to be constant
BlackRussian - Monday, 9 Mar
I think that it should all be set up WAY ahead of time with a totally INFLEXIBLE parenting plan. That was there is NO excuses, he will know the routine, he has to be there to pick them up within a 15 min window and drop them off no later then 15 min after the time you guys agree upon. He has proven to be a flake if he can disappear for so long, and proves he doesnt care if he is going to be late just to cause drama. Men can be such a pain in the ass, I'm glad your husband had yer back. And maybe you should pitch this all to Madea for her next movie?? ;)
dinahmite425 - Monday, 9 Mar
well, i think you should let them go again, because at the end of the day... you want your kids to love there dad and to have fond memories of him when they get older... I grew up with a great dad and i was so sad when i had my daughter that she would not have the same experience as i did with her dad... the main goal is to make your kids life as normal as possible and your children my not seem to affected now but say when they are in there 20's and they are forming relationships boyfriends or having kids i dont know if your kids or boys or girls but a girl could have issues with men and trust a boy my not be a good dad becuase they werent around there own dad...
i say when he does come to see then let him unless he truly is going to cause danger... if hes running let let him run a little late now if you cant reach him ny phone after an hour or two of being let then gert a little worried but if they answer the phone then let it go alittle, really the best way to drop kids off in a strained ex relationship is drop offand pick up from school or daycare then you elimate all the drama, let him pick them up from school and drop back off at school or daycare it really is better less strain and drama
lisey-n-brees-mommy - Monday, 9 Mar
i would not let them go next time sorry thats just me. sorry you had all that drama sucks to worry about your babies is one of the worst feelings in the world. i say trust your instincts
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