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16-6-2009 - 8 wks...No Heartbeat...Miscarriage

My mood while writing this blog: sad

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So, we went to our 2nd ultrasound appt. this morning hoping to see our little one growing strong with a heartbeat. But as i feared, the baby was there measuring 7 wks 1 day but no heartbeat. I am so devastated. Why does it seem like women who would do anything for a baby have the bad luck and those who don't even want a baby go on to have healthy pregnancies??? It's just not fair. The Dr. even tried to see if there was blood flow to the baby, but that failed too. Nothing, not a drop of blood was flowing through our little one. So now I wait a week to see if i will pass it on my own. If not, i will try the meds. that will speed up the process. I dont want to have an invasive procedure right now, I dont think i can handle it emotionally. So now its time to try and be strong, as hard as it will be, and wait until it is our time to conceive again. Thank you for all your support through my short but wonderful journey. Good luck to all you soon to be mommies and those trying to conceive!! Love to you all!

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15 Comments on 8 wks...No Heartbeat...Miscarriage


mummytummy09 - Thursday, 18 Jun
OH MY GOD IM SO SORRY TO HEAR YOUR NEWS I HAVENT EVEN BEEN FOR A SCAN YET AND WONT BE FOR ANOTHER 3WEEKS AND IM SO SCARED

chrissy7 - Thursday, 18 Jun
omg darling i am so sorry to hear that x your little angel will be looking over you everyday.

RainbowRach - Wednesday, 17 Jun
oh my darling, I am so so sorry to hear this ((big hugs))

You and your DH are in my thoughts at his difficult time. I am here if you want to talk x

bellybumbles - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Just take it easy and do what you need to do for you, sorry about the miscarriage, I can't imagine how upset you are. Now you have a little angel watching over you though and I hope that when you're ready to try again everything goes smoothly.

jboogie7307 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Oh hunny I am so sorry. I cannot imagine what you are going thru. My heart and prayers go out to your family and you.

hopefulmommytobe - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I am so sorry to read your news darling. I was so looking forwad to us growing together. May you stay strong and pray to God asking for strenght. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please stay and let us know how you are doing. Soon you will have your own bundle.
Noni

tangerina - Tuesday, 16 Jun
I'm soooooooo sorry to read this. :( I cant even imagine what you must be feeling. My heart and my prayers go out to you and your family :(

jamie8324 - Tuesday, 16 Jun
Yes it is unfar and I know this wont help at all but it is Gods plan for this to happen. Maybe there would have been something really wrong with the baby and he decided he wanted his angel home with him. I think you will get a healthy baby one day soon

baby[bump]mama - Tuesday, 16 Jun
i want to say i know what you are going thru...but every woman takes a misscarriage diffrently. we all suffer and go thru pain. i hope you can pass this baby with out a d & c. i think passing your baby naturally makes it easier. i hope you will continue to stay on this site, we are all here to support you.

renee

abi1988 - Tuesday, 16 Jun
ah hun thats awfull no onee should go through this and its so unfair i suffered a miscarriage in december and i felt terrible too im here if you need a chat hun
and good luck ttc in the near future xxxxxx

Love*Made*Us - Tuesday, 16 Jun
Hang in there! You'll have a healthy baby when the timing is right! I know it really sucks but stay strong!

MaddoxAndAverysMama - Tuesday, 16 Jun
I'm so sorry girl... I know this fear, it has come true for me too... Even after a healthy pregnancy it does NOT go away.. I'm thinking about you today... Hope everything goes well for you. When we lost our first baby I prayed and prayed that it would all happen naturally and it did... Check out the forum for TTC after a loss. it is full of helpful women.. <3

MrsStrickland74 - Tuesday, 16 Jun
Oh I am so sorry to hear this. I wish you the best.

MrsMommy2 - Tuesday, 16 Jun
Oh hun i'm so sorry to hear this. I know how hard it is and your right the women who want a baby more than anything always seem to be the one's that have a hard time. I don't understand it. But I am confident you will get your baby one day. I had a miscarriage this past september and had to take the methorexate injection ended up taking 6months off TTC and 2 months back into it I ended up pregnant w/ this little one. So it will happen for you to I just know it! In the mean time if you need anybody to talk to/vent i'm here.

DiandClover - Tuesday, 16 Jun
Hun, I am so, so sorry to hear this news. If you need an 'ear', I will be here. Even if you do not plan on TTC again any time soon, the TTC-After-Loss forum is a great place for support on this site. Take care, as best you can, and take comfort in the fact that you know you can get pregnant, and you will have your healthy, full term baby in your arms some day!