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|15-12-2008 - Frustrated
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I feel like such crap right now. I feel like I'm in this pregnancy all by myself. My husband is really, really hurting my feelings lately...is it just me and pregnancy hormones? I just don't feel that I am getting the support from him that I think I should be getting. Even just doing stuff around the house he never contributes lately. He's always gone on weekends and when we are at home during the week we just sit on the couch and watch tv, like we can't find anything better to do, like spend time together without the tv, or go on a date, or something intimate. Sometimes I feel like we are just slowly slipping away from eachother and I try to grab him back but it's not working. I really don't know what to do. I've talked to him about how I feel but nothing changes. I just wish he would take the time and do something special for me. Am I like some alien or something? Is he afraid of me because I'm pregnant? This is new to both of us so maybe we just need to adjust, I don't know. I just want things to be normal, like they were before I was pregnant! I love being pregnant but this is just tearing my heart out and sometimes I wish I wasn't pregnant anymore, like maybe it was the wrong thing to do...
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- Wednesday, 24 Dec Aww Sweetie, I know where your at in the feelings department. I finally got up the nerve to talk to my DH last night and I explained that he is hurting my feelings. He said that he just doesn't know what to do and he can't fix me and it frustrates him. He says I'm not the same person and he is right. I have changed. I don't like the same things, I don't eat the same things and everything hurts my feelings. I guess there are no good answers but we can't let this hurt the love we have. We are all going through our own emotional state right now. Yesterday I just wanted to run away but today I see that I have to help him understand better what I'm feeling and help him understand that he can't fix it, he just needs to listen and let me go through it. I wish you lots of luck! When this baby gets here you will have a new little bundle to focus on!! LeLe0307
- Tuesday, 16 Dec OH NO! I am sooo sorry to hear that. That really stinks that your husband is acting that way. It's not fair to you at all. He may be going through a freak out mode where he thinks if he doesn't do all the things he wants to do now he won't ge to.. as a 'guy'.. ??? I don't know. I can imagine it being extremely hard on you and not fair at all. Just keep trying.. maybe go out and have a girls night or go stay with a friend for a day or two.. let him be alone and maybe think about things. I wish I had better advice. Keep us posted. We are here for you!!!!