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21-6-2008 - WHY AM I SO SCARED

My mood while writing this blog:
SCARED

Hi,

Just wanted to say something...

Has anyone still been worried about a miscarriage when they are 18 weeks... I'm so scared that i cried when my boyfriend just asked a question about it... It made him feel so bad, i just get so worried that it could happen still... I bumped into a kitchen bench tonight while trying to walk in the dark it didn't hurt me but could it have hurt the baby?

I just dont know how to stop stressing about it..

Any help would be great...

4 Comments on WHY AM I SO SCARED

Jet - Saturday, 26 Jul
This is a feeling shared by many of us. I lost twins in 2nd trimester last year (and unlike Sharon-Koch's view, as there was nothing wrong with my babies according to autopsy reports I don't believe they wouldn't have had a good quality of life so I'm particularly conscious that babies sometimes just decide to go). So this pregnancy has been very scary. I'm now 27 weeks and am starting to feel a little more secure. The baby is viable etc.... All you can do is worry about what is within your control and send lots of messages of love to your baby and refuse to worry about what you can't control. At times the worry is overwhelming and it simply isn't helpful. Talk with your dtr or midwife about this and ask him or her to take extra care to check that everything is "in order". If it is, then you must substitute worry with love, every time you feel it!

laura2525 - Sunday, 22 Jun
Hello, I no the exact feeling!!! I had a M/C last August and since the day i found out i was pregnant this time around i have done nothing but worry!!!! It is just mothers instinct kicking in i think but trust me, we are way out of the danger zone now!!! The chance of Miscarriage drops by 75% once u pass the first trimester!!! I no its hard and i ought to really listen to my own advise as i too, am a worrier, but just try to enjoy the pregnancy and the whole experience or u may regret it. Good luck and all the best x x x x x x x

preggers@32 - Sunday, 22 Jun
I'm really scared too; I had a miscarriage back in December at 8 weeks and there is not a day that goes by in the pregnancy that I am not scared or worried. I think its natural but we also have to be confident that the M/C rate has gone down for us since we are our of our first trimester now. Let's just pray that our DD come quickly! :-)

sharon-koch - Sunday, 22 Jun
Its natural to be scared. There is this wonderful thing happening to you that may at times seem too good to be true. Everyone goes through this, I know I have. I just try to think that if something were to happen to the baby it is because they would not have a good quality of life. Try not to worry so much, easier said than done, I know. You're just really happy and you're afraid it's too good to be true. Enjoy it!

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