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15-1-2009 - update on my situation

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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for all of those that hve sent me a comment in regards to my partner i have an update for u..

after having a chat to him the other night i have found out that he's has been feeling that something was wrong since march last year but never spoke to me about it. i have had no indication that this was coming. he's also told me that because he is an interstate truck driver he doesnt feel i should have to sit at home all by myself while he is on the road as it is unfair. he also feels that he loves his job to much to let anything get in the way of it. my response was so u'd give up me and the baby for ur job. he said he doesnt know how to change his ways in regards to helping around the house and the general things that have to be done in life.

i havent had the most easiest of pregnancies as im sure some of u havent either. i have been really moody and have taken alot out on him which i know i should have and i have apologised for it.

he tells me that he is going to stay as its not fair i do this on my own but i have told him i want him to stay cause he wants to not cause he feels he has to. i am strong enough to do this on my own and have family and friends to help me out if need be.

all the kind words you guys have sent to me have been really great and have made me think that i can do it on my own and put my needs first before anyone elses and that my unborn child comes first. he has told me that he cares and loves me alot but just needs to sort his stuff out. and i sit n wonder is he in love with me or just loves me?

i have told him that im staying until the baby is born as i feel its hard to hav to change all my mid wife app. up where my mum lives and i dont wanna stress about having to pack up and leave at this stage during my pregnacy. i have done enough stressing and feel its time to calm down and relax not just for me but for the baby.

i wanna thank you all for the comment and the advice as i have taken this on board. i will keep u all posted and hope things wok them selves out.

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3 Comments on update on my situation


beachbumsnk - Monday, 19 Jan
Yeah i agree with the other ladies .... It sad that its that way for you but we dont need men honestly i think they are the ones that need us lol... but stay strong dont get too stressed and stay healthy :D

collegeprincess27 - Friday, 16 Jan
Its amazing how strong we can become when need to be we as women are awesome lol I agree moving right now isn't the best thing for you and I agree you do not need that extra stress right now. Keep your head up it won't be long before your baby has you so happy that you are nothing but smiles. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

danileigh - Friday, 16 Jan
I kind of have my own opinion. If this guy has to think about whether or not he WANTS to be with you and the baby, it's not worth it. You deserve better than that! Even if you stayed and tried to work things out, do you always want to worry if he is happy with you and is really in love with you? OF COURSE NOT! I have been there and done that. There is a better life for you. You are a beautiful girl who can have anyone you want. Once I moved on with my life, my ex came back and decided he wanted us. It was TOO LATE! I met someone who would NEVER leave me and worships me no matter how moody I am. He accepts me and my child, and I have never doubted that he is truly loves me. You can also have that. Move on!