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12-6-2009 - Follow up to OMG.

My mood while writing this blog:
Still pissed.

Ok thank you everyone that commented me on my outburst about my mother in law. I will try to paint as clear a picture of her and the situation as I can but TRUST me none of you will ever know the true extent of what a piece of shit this woman is.....

It is soooooooo hard to get into it all, but my husband and I have been together for 9 years, since 11th grade in high school. His mother is medically diagnosed with many many mental problems ranging from bipolar to hypochondria, just name it she has it. To make this story short, she ALWAYS insists that no matter what the situation, she must be the center of attention, whether it's my wedding, my baby shower, or my giving birth to my child. Eveyrthing is always about MARY. She has tainted EVERY SINGLE BIG moment in my life....prom, rehearsal dinner, wedding, baby shower, the birth of my 1st child and now the 3d/4d sonogram I invited my family to come and witness. She told me it was not my place to invite MY FAMILY to MY SONOGRAM of MY CHILD that is in MY BODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She said she and my mother should be the only people there, that it is innapropriate to have other family members there, she was screaming and yelling at me on the phone 20 minutes before I had to be at my appointment. She had me COMPLETELY hysterical. Iw as shaking and crying, it was horrible!!!! I told her that I do not want her in my life or my childrens lives, I told her to turn the fuck around and go home. I can't recall eerything I said but let me tell you I did not hold back, Iw as not nice. She is lucky that we fought on the phone trust me cause I would have ripped that little bitch apart had we been fighting in person. She tries to ruin every good experience anyone has ever had, especially me. She almost ruined her one sons life. Thank God he got out of her custody when he did. It amazes me that her sons are as accomplished as they are. Everything she buys or does for us or our daughter, she expects something big in return, I tell her I don;t want her material bullshit but she doesn't ever listen to anythign I say..she wonders why I never let my child alone with her, she wonders why she has never been allowed to take my daughter anywhere unless I am with her...she has been 302'd numerous times, she totals a vehicle every year, she threatens suicide all the time, she tries to pick fights with everyone she meets, she is a high school drop out white trash piece of shit..She really is a HOT MESS, I could never in a million billion years explain it so you could all truly understand. IT MIGHT SOUND MEAN but I will never be truly happy with my life until that woman is dead and gone. OK so maybe that helps a little? haha thanks for letting me vent ladies I really need it sometimes!!! I hope none of you have an ounce of MIL trouble that I do.

3 Comments on Follow up to OMG.

maureen_hel - Wednesday, 24 Jun
Jenna I think I'm one of the few people on this site that completly understands lol cause I actually know the woman ahh she has actually tried to ruin our friendship many times! Don't let her get away with blaming it on bi polar shit I know many people with it that lead normal healthy lives she's just phsycho bitch

MUMJEN - Sunday, 14 Jun
Jen I hope in all this your husband sees what you see in his mother and that the conflict between you and (MIL) should we say in your case BIL (Bitch in law) does not spill over into your marriage. Anyway what a cow, maybe it’s not this simple, but don’t invite her to anything. If your husband agrees – simple remove her from YOUR life. I mean if she wants to steal the light from her son’s days – then that is his problem to deal with. But things like YOUR birth, don’t even let her know you are in labor. Rather enjoy the experience and deal with the lunatic who if upset because she was not there later. At least that way you get to ENJOY YOUR moment. You just keep putting her in her place, Bipolar is no joke and they people who simply do not see reason nor do they understand that other are entitled to their own options. So my hat off to you for dealing with it for the last 9 years – IS the women not on medication for it, oh yes maybe it too much medication that’s the problem. Slip in a sleeping pill or 4 if she land up in your company again – hhahahaha

Love*Made*Us - Friday, 12 Jun
OMFG she is out there! I feel for you.

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