26-12-2010 - Vent and a lil update

My mood while writing this blog: irrated

Dont know if I should start with a hey whats happening or if I should just state if ya dont like what i am bout to write then delete me..lol Guess we will go with saying our lil miracle boy was born august 17 5 wks early his name is Malakai Douglas Scott..(yes mom to a boy) we went with Malakai but just so ya know he was not named till he was 28 hrs old i will explain all that later..lol I would love to report he is healthy but that is not the case..He goes in Jan to see a eye specialist they are scared his issues at birth are causing him to go blind..but none the less he was gave to us by god and will take and cheish him anyway god made him...again I will go into more detail next blog..but this one is too those parents that get under my skin..not even just parents women who do this period..

So this is how I feel and NO one has to agree..first one to mothers and fathers..if you chose to have a child with a person of another race learn about that race and invole them in the best of both of thier worlds..If you have a daughter you have a couple options,learn to do thier hair or pay someone to do it..I knew nothing bout doing hair other then putting mine in a ponytail..lol and when I chose to adopt my first 4,1 being a girl I sat and learned till my hands hurt and even a couple fingers bled..it took me hrs to get a simple braid done..but i stuck with it for her..I dont even care if it is just a ponytail but do something and learn how to care for it..Make ur daughters proud of her hair from a very young age..Stop sending them out in the world without even running a brush through it, looking all matted..kids these days are mean at a young age care and take pride in them..Next thing that drives me wild is when a woman starts dating a African American man she then thinks she has a license to throw the N word all over..Maybe to others it dont bother them but it does me and my fam. my husband dont even use the word so tell me why his brothers girlfriend thinks it is ok to come up to him and our kids and use the word..i swear i am gonna smack that girl next time..anywho that is my rant and u can give ya feed bk rather it be good or bad!!