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25-3-2009 - why do i bother?

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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i have 2 little sisters, 18 & 15. I'm the oldest. Apprently they both hate my guts because i have a "big mouth" and told my mom that they been doing Extasy. they think its no big deal i cant sit back and not say anything they post pictures on their myspace all fucked up, i havent said anything in a while but i finally had to, because i care..i live 3000 miles away from them and i feel so helpless so i thought telling my mom maybe it would help but it made it worse, my mom probably wont do shit and my sisters both hate my guts and said some really mean mean things to me..so now my children will have no aunts.. god idk how to make things better.. i hope things blow over.. im pretty depressed =( did i do the right thing? ugh.

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7 Comments on why do i bother?


MAMAjo ♥ - Wednesday, 25 Mar
you totally did the right thing! and they'll come around in time... they'll realize you did it outta love and thats it... who knows, you may have saved their life...

the scroggins - Wednesday, 25 Mar
i know how it goes with sibiling wars. i have 3 sisters and two of them tortured me and said awful things bout and towards me throughout my whole pregnancy. i would have done the same thing. i keep an eye out on my niece and i let things slide...like her goin out wit a guy *shes 15* or stuff like that but when it comes to hardcore drugs. i'd defintaly tell her mom in a hurry. only because i love her and don't want anything to hurt her. you're sisters may give youa hard time now but they will come around. one of my sisters has apoligized and we are on okay terms. while another one still won't talk to me.

kaeljoval - Wednesday, 25 Mar
You did the right thing, don't second guess yourself. If something were to have happened to them and you never told anyone what you know, you would feel really guilty. I had a similar situation with my cousin. Her mom and she were both very angry with me for a couple of years, but eventually, it blew over. They can't be angry over this forever.

ashleykaye - Wednesday, 25 Mar
yes,girl i totally agree on you telling on them...they need help that stuff could actually lead to death,rape,and no telling what.Thats terrible...I can relate to what ur feely especially the pain im actually from florida and i live in new hampshire at the time and anytime i talk to any of my family members back home their all high on drugs...i hate it..

mamalvs4 - Wednesday, 25 Mar
YOu DEFINITLY did the right thing, and im sure when they grow up a little bit they will see it and thank you for looking out for them. im sure things will blow over!! ill keep my fingers crossed for you

marli - Wednesday, 25 Mar
You absolutely did the right thing sweets! Once they get older and come to their senses they will thank you some day.

MrsStrickland74 - Wednesday, 25 Mar
Yeah you did the right thing. They may not like you right now but in the future they will thank you. My sister is 14 and if I ever find out she did anything like this I would tell on her. It is only because you care not out of spite. Trust me it will blow over and everything will be fine.