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02-11-2008 - Frustrated.

My mood while writing this blog: Fed-up

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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 2 and half yrs now and we couldnt be happier. but i have this one thing that has always nagged me.

I just dont like one of his friends, she really does annoy me and what makes it worse she is an ex bestfriend of mine. ive been with my boyfriend longer than hes been mates with her but i just have never like them being friends. ive always found it dodgy how she started speaking to him. it was once me and her had fallen out and i knew she was talking to him cos she knew it would annoy me. but when someone i know and who also knows her came and told me that the only reason my ex bestfriend started speaking to my boyfriend was to get back at me. now that realli pissed me off (sorry about my language). its not just that, she is always trying to be there i know i might just be reading into it to much because we are no longer friends but it really frustrates me. and im sure she is trying to make me seem liek the bad one because the other day she went and told my boyfriend she wanted to make amends with me so we can be friends again, now im not being funny but i am mature about all this and if i see her in the street i will smile to her and acknowledge that i have seen her but as soon as she sees me she looks the opposit direction so why when she does that has she told me boyfriend she wants to start speaking to me again, i told my boyfriend this and how i dont want to make a mends with her because she obviously realli dosnt actualli want to but he just sat there and stuck up for her, which realli upset me. i know she will never split us up and he loves me and cars for me more than he cares about her but its still really winds me up that there friends. ive told my boyfreind about it and said that them being friends upsets me some times so he now no longer speaks to her as much but it still frustrates me and i dont want to keep telling him cos i dont want to seem like the pushy/naggy girlfriend.

this is the only thing that annoys me in our relationship and its the only thing that makes me fed-up but i jsut dont know what to do about her..i dont want her in our lifes but i dnt want to tell him to stop being friends with her.. What do you think i should do ladies, the help will be very much appriated.

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1 Comments on Frustrated.


Britney8328 - Monday, 3 Nov
UGh thats annoying! I would be frusterated as well, I really dont know what you can do in this situation WOO i would probably just try to hold my tongue but you know sooner or later your going to end up saying something since holding in your feelings can usually result in that LOL! sorry i wish i could help you and give some good advice but just want you to know your not wrong for feeling like you do !