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kickboxerbaby
Age: 30
Country: USA
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City: Carteret
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22-10-2009 - MIL from HELL rantingMy mood while writing this blog:
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So my MIL stopped by today unannounced. When I openned the door to see who it was she pushed it wide open and just walzed right into my living room yelling where's my son! I tried to stay calm and said he's in the kitchen but you need to keep your voice down the baby's sleeping in the pack n play (in the living room) She then proceeded into the kitchen asking David what he wanted her to cook him tonight for his birthday. Not even asking if I WANTED to do something for MY husband. David did tell her that dinner had to wait since he was taking our daughters to the movies. Then she decided to inform me that her sisters are at her house and she was going to come back after picking up said items for his birthday dinner and pick up Logan. Just Logan leaving me at home. I informed her that I was breast feeding and she openned my fridge took out what I had already pumped so far today and said. "I will just take this!" I tried to explain that he could wait for me to be ready to come over but she just kept ignoring me and told me she'd be back soon. Right now I have turned off my phone and am refusing to answer the door if and when she comes back. AHHHHHHHHHH I HAVE HAD IT! How dare she. Evil, vile, women. I told my husband that he's more then welcome to have dinner with his family tonight but as for me and our children we are staying home. I am tired of her arrogance. Treating me as if they are not my children and disregarding me as if I were a child. I have put up with her for going on five years and I have had enough. Please tell me I am not crazy here and she is going way over the line.




6 Comments on MIL from HELL


bgoani - Friday, 23 Oct
WOW.....that lady needs to calm down...I don't see anything that you did wrong....First of all you do not take out a baby out of the house at least 40 days or 6 weeks...unless its a doctors app...let alone take to a dinner...when i cook I don't put our baby in the living so she doesn't smell all of that..let alone take to someones house where there are a lot of people and its flu season...helloooo is shee thinking before she is acting....I would just talk to your husband hun..

mungbean - Friday, 23 Oct
she was wayyyyyy out of line! did she forget that you only just came out of hospital from a complicated birth???incredibly disrespectful! i'd be locking that door and refusing to open it if she came knocking. i'd struggle to have a newborn outta my sight at 3mths old let alone 2 weeks, especially if i didn't trust the person.

claire louise - Friday, 23 Oct
Yep sounds like my MIL are our hubbys related lol. I know wen my son is born she will be round wantting to take him which so ant happening she is a real dargon lol. No hun I really would of done the same thing. Let her know whos boss.xx

mamadear04 - Thursday, 22 Oct
Sorry, but how dare her say she is taking your baby anywhere...The baby is way to young , and im sure doesn't leave your side yet...Wow does she hate you...Why is she so mean to you?/ You know what ,, I know you respect her because she is your husbands mom, but she is crossing lines with you and you do not need to put up with that..

cuddlebunnymeg - Thursday, 22 Oct
She definitely sounds like she is. It should be up to your husband how he wants to spend her birthday. I have to admit I don't mind people wanting to see my daughter but I would like them to call. She is almost 6 weeks old and we haven't had a week to ourselves! I understand people want to see her but she is not going anywhere and that means I have to entertain people too. Augh!! Anyway back to your situation. You're breastfeeding and the least she could do is treat you with respect and it doesn't sound like she has any. I agree with you!!

momof2hopfully3 - Thursday, 22 Oct
OMG i can so feel you. my mil is the worst!! today my hubby told her we were getting a 3d ultrasound done on saturday and she could come if she wanted and she pushed it off saying why are you letting her get that its too exspencive. for one that was my birthday presant from my hubby and what is it any of her bussiness how much money we send and what we spend it on.
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