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16-5-2009 - sighs here comes more drama

My mood while writing this blog: iirrated

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sighs where do I start here:

I know some of you know me by now because I comment on here alot due to helping other and giving others advice the best way I can. Anyways, I been trying to help my brother out that stays with me by baby sitting his daughters while he is at work because he has them every other weekends but he works fridays and saturdays. Well it seems like every time I have them, its drama involved. Him and his ex wife don't get alone and when she gives me messages to give to him, he gets all pissy in the pants. He always make me feel like I am stupid sometimes because I don't do something right. This whole baby sitting thing is for me to pratice on how to take care of a child so I ain't perfect. Anyways, the girls came over here with a cold and all I told him was she pefer us not to run the air because she doesn't want the cold to get worse and what does he say. Well they shouldn't be sick in the first place blah blah blah. I was like its something going around and he denies that. Ok hello...My husband came down with a fever out of the blue and I was having a few slight problems as well. They had to close down a school in houston because 286 children were sick and he is telling me nothing is not going around. But coninuting with the story, I told him that he needs to clean out his bath tub so I can give his daughter a bath and he goes and response with a smart ass message saying that I need to clean my nasty room. I was like WTF. I am being as helpful as I can but I get treated like an ass at the end. So hear I am venting to my husband about what is going on and he acts like he doesn't even care. I am almost about to tell my brother I can't do this anymore because its always something unneccessary going on when I pick them up. Don't get me wrong I love my nieces and everything, but this bull shit will have to stop. And why bother to tell him???? Because he is going to get all pissy and start talking alot of shit to me about what all he has done for me blah blah blah. This will be the last time I ever do this room mate thing with a family member for sure. just 4 more months in this place and it will be over. Too bad I will be moving and having the baby lol.

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4 Comments on sighs here comes more drama


fortysomething - Saturday, 23 May
Family is the worst. They think they are entitled just because they are family and alot of them don't appreciate it when you do help them. Family will run all over you if you let them. I am so sorry you are having so much drama at a time where you should be really enjoying your pregnancy. Men really are no support at all. It seems sometimes they are so insensative. You are a good person for helping your brother out. Its a shame they just don't see that. I swear though sometimes it seems that nice people finish last. Don't let them mistake your kindness for weakness. Practice some tough love and maybe then they'll see that your serious.

missmnm - Monday, 18 May
that's messed up that he is being that way toward you while you are expecting. I hope he realizes that your hormones will only let you take so much before you go off. Don't let him hold what he has done for you in the past over your head, that is what family does.

kelly.s - Sunday, 17 May
take no notice of your bro he should be grateful your helping like you are!!! men..... who needs em??

5itis - Sunday, 17 May
Sounds like 50 years of women's lib have achieved very little. Just don't give your nieces their bath!