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21-7-2009 - Don\'t rely on others...

My mood while writing this blog: quiet

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As you all know me and my husband moved into our new apartment and we had our great times and rough times. But this blog won't be about me and the hubby. Me and my brother still talks every once in a while. He was telling me what was going on with him and other situations. He is still stuck on the fact that we left him. He claims that he has no food in the house and haven't been eating right. All I can say was sorry but I ain't showing no remorse for what I did. Why should I? Then he said we left him with all the bills. Hmmm the last time I check, we was paying for everything and he only paid for half his rent. I'm not going to let this stress me out anymore. I know what was done in that apartment and I ain't showing no pitty for him at all. I sick of looking like the bad guy in certain situation. My dad told me not to worry about whats going on and focus on chris. So this blog is basically about him relying on us too much and now he is paying the price. But he aint the only person struggling to make ends meet. We are as well even though we have a cheaper apartment. And its not just us but the whole country is struggling. I can't stand when a person just think they are the only ones that have fiancial problems. He gave me advice about what I need to expect when the baby is born saying that I should get work asap. Its not easy when you don't have a baby sitter unless I work morning and my husband works nights. I hope some of you that read this blog don't think I am an evil person. I am tired of trying to help people but at the end everything falls apart. They basically take my kindness for weakness.....

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1 Comments on Don\'t rely on others...


ymmfreshstart - Tuesday, 21 Jul
Some people just take advantage too. My mom refused to put her utilities in her name for several years, but she didn't pay them hen they were in my name, now I owe the gas and electric company several thousand dollars. I finally said too bad, sorry but no more. Now she tells everyone how mean I am and how I screwed her over. I don't care anymore, look out for your family, that means you, your DH, and the baby. Thats it.