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kitty79
Age: 35
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Partner: Nicholas (DH)
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30-12-2010 - I need to vent upsetMy mood while writing this blog:
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I just needed to vent for a bit.

I was on a website about Provera looking for more information on it and side effects and I see all these posts by idiots wanting to know if they could use it for an abortion or forced miscarriage. I wanted to totally find these people and punch them.

Then I hear about my fiance's ex. She is about to give birth in January and she was out drinking and smoking and getting tattoos throughout the pregnancy. She did it with #1 (claims she didnt know she was pregnant until 7.5 months) and that baby came out well so why not this time. AUGH! Plus she says she wasnt sure for the first 5 months or so she was going to keep it so why not. OMG! I hate people like that.

I try not to judge people but when I hear things like this I feel sick. They are carrying such precious cargo and yet are doing crap like this. Then there are us out here who cant get pregnant easily who have to go through so much drama to get that BFP and then worry for the 9 months that the baby will be okay. We take prenatals before even trying, we dont drink while trying, we dont do anything that might harm the possible baby that we are trying to make. AUGH!

I know a girl from high school who found out she was pregnat and got a later term abbortion (late enough but still soon enough to be legal).. and you know what, it still is there with her. When she looks at her two boys and remembers they could have had an older sibling, when she hears of another person doing a similar thing. And sometimes I look at her and I hurt too. I love her because she is my friend and has been for 17 years, but it hurts to remember.

Anyway.. I had to vent. I try not to judge but it just hurts sometimes...




2 Comments on I need to vent


Aidensmommy1223 - Monday, 3 Jan
yup i hear ya hun.a girl i know just had an abortion last month at 15weeks( i think). and she found out at 6 weeks...and like she continued to drink n say she hopes she loses it. needless too say I dont talk to her too much anymore ....it hurt me cuz i have a baby and i couldnt imagine doing that. And then to make matters worse...a week after she had it, shes like "oh shane and i wanna have a baby next yr" URRGGGHHH!!!!!

Val-C - Sunday, 2 Jan
I hear ya! I fortunately have never experienced the struggles of getting pregnant but still get fustrated to see and hear of woman who dont appreciate the blessings.
Photos
Nicky at 11 MONTHS! (2012, 11, 12) Nicky 16 months (2013, 04, 06) Nicky 14 months (2013, 03, 06) 39 Weeks (2011, 11, 26) 37 Weeks (2011, 11, 26)  (2011, 12, 07)  (2011, 12, 07) 28 weeks and 3 days (2011, 09, 08)  (2011, 12, 07) 36 weeks and 3 days - shot 3 (2011, 11, 04)  (2011, 12, 07)  (2011, 12, 07) Our wedding day 2/12/11 (2011, 02, 23)  (2011, 12, 20) my bfp on march 17 2011 (2011, 03, 29) ultrasound march 31,2011 - 5 weeks and 3 days.  (2011, 03, 31) 6 weeks and 3 days ultrasound. (2011, 04, 07) Click here to see all kitty79`s photos

Children
Joseph-Michael-Manzella-(Joey) (2014) Nicholas-Walter-Manzella-Jr-(Nicky) (2011)

Latest blogs
14-5-2014 - update on the boys
05-2-2014 - Joey!!!!
11-12-2013 - Nicky 2 years old
10-12-2013 - week 31 pregnancy update
23-9-2013 - Definitely Team Blue
12-9-2013 - Update -18 weeks
16-8-2013 - Baby #2 update - 15 weeks
13-6-2013 - First ultrasound- June 13, 2013... 5 weeks and 6 days
05-6-2013 - Baby #2-4 weeks 5 days update
03-5-2013 - May 2013 - TTC month #3
23-3-2013 - Ttc #2 - month 2 - updated! I ovulated! 2ww in progress!
21-2-2013 - Trying for number 2- First cycle of clomid 2013
04-2-2013 - Trying for number two... Cycle #2
12-1-2013 - Maybe Baby...
12-11-2012 - Journey to #2
12-11-2012 - To try or no to try.. that is the question
24-9-2012 - Ncky - nine months
23-9-2012 - Tastefully Simple Independent Consultant
16-3-2012 - Officially SAHM
15-1-2012 - Smiles, laughs and Dirty Diapers
12-12-2011 - My pregnancy 2011
05-12-2011 - Week 41
27-10-2011 - I wanna cry
20-10-2011 - update after doctors appt
18-10-2011 - 3rd trimester update...
27-9-2011 - Parent - Job Description
22-9-2011 - \
03-8-2011 - emotional meltdown day
26-7-2011 - Update on my pregnancy
13-7-2011 - Our baby boy has a name...
07-7-2011 - My baby boy has a bigger selection clothes than his daddy...
06-7-2011 - "Augh! Because its your ex and Im your present and future, thats why..."
04-7-2011 - If one more chick says...
29-6-2011 - Pregnancy update 6 29 2011
21-6-2011 - Its a ...
20-6-2011 - Update on my pregnancy week 17
13-6-2011 - The best Hubby ever....
10-6-2011 - Names we like....
24-5-2011 - Sick...YUCK
20-5-2011 - Dont I get a say????
14-5-2011 - Survey for my 1st pregnancy....
05-5-2011 - I am even now emotional now than before pregnancy,... and that is a scary thing
29-4-2011 - My first pregancy update #2
25-4-2011 - Madame Zaitska revisited.. lol
25-4-2011 - Morning Sickness all day long
19-4-2011 - Why can\'t I let go?
08-4-2011 - My 1st Pregnancy... whats going on so far...
25-3-2011 - Madame Zaritska Predicts...
22-3-2011 - I want our OWN stuff for OUR baby, not a redo...
21-3-2011 - This weekend
18-3-2011 - BFP and Doc Appt
16-3-2011 - Update March 16 2011
10-3-2011 - the dream....
08-3-2011 - Followup appt day 15 -u/s
07-3-2011 - Update on Clomid Cycle #1
01-3-2011 - TTC while living with the inlaws... AUGH!
23-2-2011 - I'm Starting CLOMID today!!!!!
22-2-2011 - AF came aknocking...
17-2-2011 - Honeymoon pact
18-1-2011 - BFN..so far
14-1-2011 - Update on Blood Results
06-1-2011 - Blood Test Results
03-1-2011 - results of my xrays
03-1-2011 - Doc visit - Jan 3 2011 - BFN on stick test.. but now they are doing a blood test
30-12-2010 - I need to vent
29-12-2010 - blah!
24-12-2010 - Okay BFN
23-12-2010 - hhhmmm...........I will retest tomorrow morning and this time be careful while performing the test....
15-12-2010 - My feelings and then the Dreams...
09-12-2010 - Visit to doc 12/9/10 - we want to TTC
03-12-2010 - Question
20-11-2010 - ENGAGED!
22-10-2010 - Is she pregnant?!?
15-10-2010 - confused emotions
08-10-2010 - Update October 2010
19-7-2010 - update July 2010
02-10-2009 - I hate my ex right now
03-9-2009 - Do you like Music?
26-7-2009 - update
13-6-2009 - All over the Place.....
06-5-2009 - Bad News for this Kitty
26-4-2009 - Another BFN
01-4-2009 - Goodbye 20\'s....
06-1-2009 - My Mom: "When will I be a grandma"; Me: "SHUT UP!"
28-12-2008 - Update
19-9-2008 - OMG! They call this SLIGHT Pain?!?
17-9-2008 - Why?
09-9-2008 - Inspiration
08-9-2008 - Obsessed?!?
07-9-2008 - My Introduction to this site

Nurseryroom

Nicholas-Jr`s-(Nicky)-Room
Theme: Disney Sports
Added: 2011, 10, 26
Number of pictures: 7

Polls
  1. Which do you prefer: Michael Francis or Michael Robert?...
    Date: 9-7-2013 Votes: 11 Comments: 3
  2. What are your thoughts on the following girls names? Which you like best? Commen...
    Date: 7-6-2013 Votes: 39 Comments: 3
  3. What kind of pain relief are you planning to use during labor or did you use dur...
    Date: 17-7-2011 Votes: 52 Comments: 6
  4. Do you believe babies/children should be vaccinated? Why or why not please....
    Date: 15-7-2011 Votes: 66 Comments: 23
  5. Do you prefer cloth or disposible diapers? Leave a comment as to why the choice...
    Date: 28-6-2011 Votes: 56 Comments: 14

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