29-6-2009 - Here we go again

My mood while writing this blog: a weee bit upset

So here I go again, don't know if I'm pissed off or upset with ding bat Steve. So I didn't hear from Steve all week period. No phone call or text like he normally will asking how's Evan. Well I finally heard from him friday around 4:30p to ask me when he can come pick up little man for the weekend. At frist I was hesitant about letting him go because I hadn't heard from him, but then that thought left my mind. I said you can come get him between 6 & 7 just let me know. Well I never heard from him back. Well 6 comes and no word from him, 7 comes and stiil haven't heard anything. So now I developing an attitude because he wanted to come get him and now he's not. Well by now it's passed time for Evan to eat so I go ahead and feed him. I gave him his normal 6oz bottle plus 2ozs of sweet potatoes. I didn't think hsteve was coming. He finally came as soon as Evan finished eating. So as I'm sitting there burping little guy Mr Attitude decides it's time to go. I guess he can't be at my house for more than the time it takes to put Evan in his car seat.

So like normal Sat comes and I send him a text asking how evans doing at 3pm. Next thing I know my phones ringing and it's Steve. He needs to inform me that Evan"puked up" all over himself . Then he tells me that I'm stupid for giving Evan food because he can't keep it down. The next thing he proceeds to tell me is that little man's stomach was hard as a rock and blowted and wouldn't stop crying until 10:30 and woke up with his tummy still rock hard. Well as he's telling me this she's in the background adding her two cents in about "how dare I do this to "their" baby". So I asked him....after Evan "pucked" up when did you feed him again. His answer was at 9:45pm. So then I asked why did you feed him so soon and he said because his belly was empty. HELLO DUMBASS, you just said his belly was hard as a rock and then you say it was empty....which is it????? I then had to explain to him again if his belly is hard he has a gas bubble that needs to be burped out. That's why he was crying and woke up the sameway. Now as for the Sweet Potatoes, he spit them back up not because he got rushed out of the house right after he ate, it never had time to settle in his belly. (It's sorta like eating and going on a rollercoaster.....let's play a game to see who can keep their food down).

So today when he drpped him off, again it was long enough to take him out of his seat. Well let me just say how pissed off I was. First, Evans caughing,sneezing,real shallow breaths......jackass had his C/A on all weekend. Now to most people this shouldn't be an issue, I understand that it gets hot here and people need to stay cool. But Steve C/A is set at 60 degrees all summer long. Never opens a window, ever. No fan to circulate the air around. Same stail air day in and day out. He smokes also and still won't open a window. When I found out I was pregnant I told him he'd have to chill out on the air this summer and turn his heat up during the winter....I repeated myself over and over while I was prenant about this. I knew his C/A was going to be a problem. When I lived there is used to wear sweat pant and long sleeve shirts and cover up with a blanket because of how cold the condo gets.

So now I've been up the whole night to watch little guy sleep. Still shallow breathing and there have been a few gasp for air. If it doesn't get better we will be going into either the doctors or er....I'll keep ya posted