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04-9-2008 - UGH...grow up

My mood while writing this blog: pissed off

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people are totally driving me crazy and it's to the point where i highly doubt it's just pregnancy hormones. ok my fiance's sister and her daughter are people with what i would call 'no class'. they're those people that say what they want and dont care what you think of them afterwards and they pride themselves on their 'honesty'. his niece is 6 months older than my fiance so you'd think that with her being a legal adult, she'd act like one. ok so in june, my fiance got fired from his job for breaking the smallest rule ever [he was drinking water while on the clock and even though it was small, his boss said he still broke a rule and that he was fired] and he's done everything possible to try to find a new one but until he does, my family's basically been supporting us as far as car insurance, rent, bills, everything. last week was this girl's 20th bday and she had the nerve to call us, not only once but twice, to ask what we were buying her for her birthday. and this girl has two kids of her own, just left the father of them because he was abusice and she's talking about going back to him so you'd think she'd understand how hard things can get sometimes. my fiance and i are constantly worried about the baby and how things are going to change, and his job situation and wondering when i should go back to work and everything else so needless to say, i have bigger problems than buying a birthday present for her. so today, my fiance had a dentist appt which was a little stressful because he has to have work done because he has an abscessed tooth so that's going to cost $500 to cost and he walked out of there with another $100 in prescriptions and he said that he'd rather not ask my family to pay for it because they help us so much and his brother and sister are really his only family [his mom's in a nursing home, paralyzed and he's never met his dad because of crazy crazy reasons] so he called his sister to see if she could help and his niece answered the phone since she's living there w. her 2 kids since leaving her bf and after he asked for help for the prescriptions, she asked him what we're buying her son for his birthday this saturday. i was like, are you kidding me? we have to call to ask his sister for help with medicine and she still expects us to cater to her. i know to some 'catering' might seem like a strong word but you've gotta know this girl. everytime the we get together with the rest of the family, she makes a point of making herself the center of the conversation. she found out a little while back that she's pregnant again with her third child with her abusive boyfriend so when we were all over at my fiance's brothers house on tuesday for her birthday dinner, her mom, my fiance's sister-in-law and i were all talking about my baby shower that's next saturday and she interrupts us all and says 'i'm going to put my baby up for adoption what do you think?'. ugh i hate how selfish people are. it's like it seriously bothers her that she's not all we talked about. right when she moved here, she started calling us to drive her places [her boyfriend ruined her car so she couldnt drive it] and to watch her kids so she could get high with friends she went to high school with. i'm glad my fiance's not a pushover and knows her crap because he can say no and no matter how upset i am with someone, i have a hard time saying no. i thought people were supposed to grow up after they have kids but obviously, i was mistaken. last summer my fiance and i went through some 'trust issues' and since this was before i really got to know her like i do now, i was confiding in her about it and she told me that if he was cheating on me or even thinking about it, that it was my fault and i should either have sex with him more so he didn't want it from other girls or i should accept that i'm doing something wrong to make him do it. who says that? i've never in my life cheated on anyone, let alone someone i'm engaged to. then she tried tellingme that cheating just sounds bad it's not really that bad when you actually do it. it frustrates me sooooooo much when people expect us to support them when they'd never think of returning the favor.

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1 Comments on UGH...grow up


mistyrose - Friday, 5 Sep
YOu poor thing i want to slap her and i have never met her! I agree with Jenn tell the bitch off lol then blame the hormones. Hope things get better for you !