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24-5-2009 - Best friend my ass!!!!

My mood while writing this blog: ANNOYED

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I am soo irratated right now ya know im not a needy person but my best friend makes me feel like i am sometimes
ok here is why i am mad
I am 8 mnths pregnant i dont do much anymore besides go out to eat or sit at home and watch movies which for the most part doesnt really bother me !! but I think that my bestfriend would be like " hey girl dont sit at your house all alone all the time come lets hang out" but no she doesnt and it pisses me off ya know i even stopped calling her i didnt call her for almost 2 weeks and she called me 2 times in that time span i didnt answer the phone cuz i think she is full of fucking shit im at my wits end with this female plus she has 2 kids and i was there for her with her 2nd i even held her leg while she was giving birth to him so you think she would understand that im all alone all the time which like i say for the most part doesnt get to me I really feel worried about her behavior beause im bout to have a baby and she claims she will be there for me cuz my family isnt very supportive but the way she acts now i highly doubt she will change just because i have a baby !!! I dont know what to do somedays i just wanna say ya know what i dont feel like your a very good friend i shouldnt have to beg you to spend time with me and thats what hurts the most because obviously she could care less about spending time with me and it pisses me off that i have to even say hey why dont we ever hang out i mean yah she has 2 kids so i understand she is busy but damn were supposed to be best friends i think hanging out like once or twice every 2 weeks should be cool but we dont even do that WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY AM SICK OF THIS WHOLE SITUATION everyone is pissing me off and stressing me out !!!!! i just want to dissapear from everyone

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7 Comments on Best friend my ass!!!!


erinvan - Tuesday, 26 May
I have a similar situation with two of my friends. They are people I've been great friends with for 15 years almost and its really just come to a point where if they don't reach out and be proactive about spending time or making time for me I just have to move on. I've maybe seen one of them since my first baby shower that was in March and the other is just as distant because i can't go out. They both have kids and you'd think they'd be the first ones to want to be here for me since this is my first...helping me out and giving me pointers...but nope! Sometimes you just have to cut ties...if they are truly your best friend..they'll come back.

Ready 4 A Change - Monday, 25 May
In 2007 I stopped talking to my so called bestfriend. For 4 years straight I helped her in every way possible money, food, clothes for her kids when she needed me I was there. She had 4 kids under age 5 with no help from anyone but welfare. Somethings happened in 2007 she wasnt there for me and thats when I realized she wasnt really my friend it made me wonder if she ever appreciated anything I did for her or was just taking my kindness for a weakness. I was there holding her leg when she had her last baby I paid for everything that baby needed because she needed the help. But in August of "07" the 1 time I needed her 2 be there for me she didnt come through I havent talked to her since. Sometimes the signs are there that the people in your life dont need to be in your future were just 2 blind to see it.

boystruckx2 - Monday, 25 May
I too found that having children made me realize who my true friends are. It sucks that is has to be that way.

jesenia09 - Monday, 25 May
fuck her my friend is being the same way i havent called her and u would think she would call to see how i am she hasnt especially now im 38 weeks this baby can be here any minute but whatever just forget about her im always alone too it dosent bother me i sit at home eat watch tv and relax u dont need nobody... and my family sucks too but fuck it my daughter is all that matters and shell be here soon... also check if its just u cause wen ur hormonal u see things in another light lol

chocolate mami - Sunday, 24 May
It's all good ma..God brings people into your life for a reason even tho it may be for a season....I hadn't talked to my "bff" or seen her since January....I too was there for her when she had my God Son..all I can do is wish her the best....but I have had one friend step up and she's been like family....I know how u feel...but it'll be alright

God Sent - Sunday, 24 May
I lost my so called best friend too. Said that she will come to my baby shower and she never called or showed up and this was back in April. Til this day I still haven't heard from her. I am done with her. I deleted her number from my phone. When I confronted her she was like don't take it personal.

darrius mommy - Sunday, 24 May
I feel ya im going thru the same with my "best friend" Yesterday was my duedate and she didnt even call!! She said she was going to spoil DJ and everything and then when it came down to it all she got him was a 3 dollar outfit from family dollar!! I dont care about the whole spoil part I just want her around. She acted like she couldnt tell her bf that she was coming to my babyshower but she can go out to the clubs till 3 in the morning, sometimes it just dont make no sense!!!