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6 Comments on When does it END??????
puddinpiedesigns - Friday, 11 Sep
This Baby momma crap is a mess... I mean I know I am the mother of someones children... but a baby momma is a whole other creature... The try to use these innocent children as puns in a game that NO ONE will win... The thing is even if you allow this to come between u and ur husband... The baby and the son will ALWAYS be siblings... Like in most of the baby momma situations the woman is bitter jaded and jealous that he was able to move on and in your case MARRY another woman that was not HER!!! and she will do anything possible to break that up... I would say U know what if she doesn't trust or like me then don't bring the son around me... I will never allow my children to go anywhere I did not trust wife or no wife... With my situation I tell DH to go she is daughter on his own... Take her out have a good time then take her home.... Love her just cant deal with unnecessary BS.... so to eliminate the middle man.. you care for her... So it will not be any misunderstandings... All I can say is I continue to continue to pray for my situation and while doing so I will add you to the list!! It is ashame that the children have to grew up with all of this anamosity because the adults involed are too inmature( not U) the mom and dad... to realize what a lasting effect this has on the kids... Its all because of unresolved issues between the mom and dad... she still loves him... and he does not want to shake the water... But all of ur children will one day grow up and they will still be siblings... IDK
reneeandbaby - Friday, 11 Sep
You did not say if the judge order that only the father pick up the son. I think that your husband see his son with none of the responibility of caring for his son. I think that you do to much. I know that you love him like he is your own son but the bottom line is that he is not your son he already has a mother. She is making if hard for you because she can do it. Men are funny creatures they will never stand up for themselves in cases like this. Men never make the grand jesture like women make the grand jesture. I know that you said that you told your daughter father to keep her if he could not drop your daughter off to your husband. If your where to do that to his mother you would be given her what she wants so you are going to have to decided to either play the game her way or not. If you want to see your step-son. This is all a game to her and she will play it to the bitter end. I do think that you should sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel. I also think that you should stop doing so much for his son and start having take part in the caring for HIS child. I think that this is the problem with women when we love a man. We do so much for them that they don't have do anymore for themselves. We should never do everything for a man period.
dinahmite425 - Friday, 11 Sep
ps... you new i would right a hella long message!! lol
dinahmite425 - Friday, 11 Sep
girl i told you before, there is no need to file papers and take her to court to tell the judge she is not following rules all you have to do is call the police on the spot the day she does not release the child when the police show up all you and larry have to do is say today we are supposed to have our son at such and such time and she is no where to be found or she wont open the door or what ever she is doing to keep him away then show the police the document's the court documents and they will give her a citation or arrest her on the spot..GIRL AT THIS POINT YOU NEED TO TELL OFF LARRY AND DONT ASK HIM ANYTHING YOU JUST NEED TO DO MEANING the next day you all are to have his son and your available and your hubby is at work you tell him straight up dont you dare leave work and cause our household to have less money to make her happy, tell him that you dont want him to leave work and you go pick him up be prepared to call the police have the document s ready and show them she was just taken to court and your are the childs family member by marriage. thats it!!!!!!!!! let her ass go to jail for real and you know what happen to my hubby please listen to me this has to be done not just to get to see the stepchild but to TEACH HER SHE IS NOT RUnnING NOTHING ONCE YOU GIVE HER THIS Extra little perk in about 6 months to a year she will demand something else!! and she will think she will get it then when larry finally puts his foot down it would be to late and i promise she will do something crazy like my hubbys ex did!!! my hubby let her have her way all the time!!! and when he tried to get some control back she did the unthinkable when my husband tried to stand up to his ex it was too late he let her have the power for too long and so when he stopped catering to her she was pissed and wanted to hurt him and take away his son!!! girl dont go through what i went through if i new then what i know now i would have taken more control.. our hubby s are really clueless!!! they have no idea what will happen to them and you.... like you already know my step son is back in our life but it is very strange now , we feel like we are on pins and needles we are scared to disipline him in fear his mom will blow up the situation and call the police ... so really its not like he his my husbands child anymore my hubby wont let us be alone with him do to the fact he is afraid of his ex making up more stuff so now we see him in public like at his football games and we had him go skating with us but to our house...no!!! this is my hubbys rule not mine so finally he gets it!!!! it s to late though you have to stand up to the ex and larry for larrys own good. he is blinded right now and he cant see that she would do such a thing but just think about it... if the ex has all the power if she calls larry and says i dont like your wife dont bring her to his football game and he listens or dont take pics of my son with your wife in the pic and he does it then say in 2 years he gets tired of being her puppet what do you thing will happen!!!! she will go into a rage!!! and hurt you your daughter and your husband by making up anything she can to damage your family's name!!! she can call DFACS on you in a heartbeat and say anything and they have to come investagate you and your household.... at this point LARRY need to be cussed out not because your mad at him but to make him snap out of it!!! he also probably has some deep down feelings for her still that he probably will never act on but that could be causing him to give in to her!!!girl at this point i know you need someone to talk to ,,, i know this is a website but i would love to talk over the phone with you,,, im a pretty positive person so please send me a private message because i can see now what can happen if you two dont gain control NOWmy hubbys ex did the same she told the judge she doenst want me picking my stepson up and the judge stated that i was not allowed as long as we were nt married well at the time we were engaged so 3 months later we were married and she was so pissed that she new i was allowed to pick him upgirl, also the problem with her not allowing him to come has to do with how you have everything arraged!!!!remember i told you you need to get everything changed to picking him up and dropping him off at school!!! not her house not your house that way you can eliminate her not being home or not answering the door or her coming outside cussing etc so if you pick him up from school or daycare she wont be there!!! to bother you it is very important to have this detail changed the next time you go to court and i promise the judge will like the idea and change it!!! all larry has to say is the mother of his child is withholding the child on many occassions and he would rather pick up and drop off at his elementary school and daycare... so if you are to have him monday then you or larry just have to pick him up after school or at his daycare and thats eat you eliminate the drama and stess!!! my hubby told the judge he would like to pick up and drop off at school only and they put it right into the docuuments and guess what the ex was VERY PISSED why because the was one way she lost a little control!!!! she wanted all the control!!! hope this helps... i would not listen to larry at this point you will argue but hey you have to protect your family and larry is blind at this point!!! you tell larry dont he dare leave work to cater to her , thats what im saying if yo had it where he picks his son from school thre would be no need to worry about him leaving work 2 hours early!!! he cant do that every week to see his son she laready gets child support and tehn he's going to lose 10-12 hours a months also!!! hell nogirl please listen to me ,, you know i know from experience im not just talking !!!at this point
neitha - Friday, 11 Sep
i feel like this first you pray on it....then you let that hubby buy all that stuff and bathe him and do all the things that you do for his son for awhile and see dont he start appreciating you more and he also needs to put his foot down with her too.
fourboystwogirls - Friday, 11 Sep
Yes you are right but i do understand why he agreed with her. She seems like she is very immature and this might be her way of seeing him alone. I dk why women act like this you keep doing what you are doing . I would feel some kinda of way too but she letting you know she run the show when it comes to him or at least that is what she is trying to do. Dont pay it no mind your husband just wants to see his son and she is grasping at air. So what she dont want you picking him up its less running for you even though you dont mind she is just being a nut. You keep loving that little boy and supporting your husband she cant win. Its not going to end it gets better. My husband has four children by his first wife and she did not want me around them at all but we have two daughters together and that was not going to fly . I tried to talk to her and let here know i would never disrespect her or her children i have four children by my first husband and i know how things go . Girl she went off and wanted to fight come to find out she wanted my husband back . We ended up fighting though cause she tried to spit on me but i regret going there with her because that is what she wanted me to do. some women have a hard time letting go . We use to argue over her all the time calling the house whenever she felt like two three in the morning and he would not say a thing . In the end i decide not to give her some much of my energy because she didnt matter and she knew this that is why she was acting like that . She wanted my husbands attention.She stilll be acting up sometimes but i never let her know she is getting to me. I dont even say anything to him anymore because i am not going anywhere we both have children by this man and they deserve to know one another i just roll with the punches and when she get to out of line i say what i have to say and keep it moving. Wish you luck with her baby momma drama is so draining
| 11-9-2009 - When does it END?????? |  My mood while writing this blog:tired of this situation!! |
Okay Ladies,,
This blog is kinda long.. but PLEASE read! Here again with the baby momma drama! Now tell me if Im wrong . Now most of you know my story with the hubby and his son's mother.My husband loves his son to death. Ok we have a court order for visitaion, and for the last 2 months she has kept his son away from him because she was mad that he was 15 minutes late dropping him off the last time that we had him.(the reason we were late is because my husband's mom foot swoll up and we had to take her to the hospital).Long story short, So we took her back to court for violation of the order. Judge told her that she has to do what the order states to do and he could put her in jail if she does not.So she states in court that she does not want me picking her son up. So in order for that to happen that means that my husband has to get off work 2 1/2 hours early to meet her. I dont understand how you don't want me to pick your son up but it's okay that he spends the WHOLE weekend over my house!! Remind her that I cook for her son, bathe her son, buy clothes for her son, I treat her son the same way that I treat my daughters. Since my husband and I have been together he has not had to do anything for his son because I take care of it all. And when I say anything I mean NOTHING!!! So I asked my husband how does he feel with the fact that she does not want me to pick their son up, and he says that he does not like it but he wants to see his son, so he will get off work early and lose money to satisfy her. So my question is how come Im good enough to cook, clean, purchase, love and take care of your son, put him to bed wake him up, call him son, but you agree with her that I can't pick your son up. We had an issue in the past where my daughter's father did not want to meet and drop off my daughter to my husband. But I told my daughter's father that either you drop her off to my husband or you keep her. Letting him know that I have moved on and this is the guy that is now in your daughter life so deal with it. so drop her off. And in which he did. So I feel the same way. If Im good enough for all thes things how come Im not good enough for picking him up. He should tell her listen I have to work, my wife is off and could meet you and If youwant me to get my son either meet her or take him back home!!!!!! Stop making her run the f%&^$#@% show. Now tellme If I'm right or wrong ladies.. Please I need your help!!!!
6 Comments on When does it END??????
puddinpiedesigns - Friday, 11 Sep
This Baby momma crap is a mess... I mean I know I am the mother of someones children... but a baby momma is a whole other creature... The try to use these innocent children as puns in a game that NO ONE will win... The thing is even if you allow this to come between u and ur husband... The baby and the son will ALWAYS be siblings... Like in most of the baby momma situations the woman is bitter jaded and jealous that he was able to move on and in your case MARRY another woman that was not HER!!! and she will do anything possible to break that up... I would say U know what if she doesn't trust or like me then don't bring the son around me... I will never allow my children to go anywhere I did not trust wife or no wife... With my situation I tell DH to go she is daughter on his own... Take her out have a good time then take her home.... Love her just cant deal with unnecessary BS.... so to eliminate the middle man.. you care for her... So it will not be any misunderstandings... All I can say is I continue to continue to pray for my situation and while doing so I will add you to the list!! It is ashame that the children have to grew up with all of this anamosity because the adults involed are too inmature( not U) the mom and dad... to realize what a lasting effect this has on the kids... Its all because of unresolved issues between the mom and dad... she still loves him... and he does not want to shake the water... But all of ur children will one day grow up and they will still be siblings... IDK
reneeandbaby - Friday, 11 Sep
You did not say if the judge order that only the father pick up the son. I think that your husband see his son with none of the responibility of caring for his son. I think that you do to much. I know that you love him like he is your own son but the bottom line is that he is not your son he already has a mother. She is making if hard for you because she can do it. Men are funny creatures they will never stand up for themselves in cases like this. Men never make the grand jesture like women make the grand jesture. I know that you said that you told your daughter father to keep her if he could not drop your daughter off to your husband. If your where to do that to his mother you would be given her what she wants so you are going to have to decided to either play the game her way or not. If you want to see your step-son. This is all a game to her and she will play it to the bitter end. I do think that you should sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel. I also think that you should stop doing so much for his son and start having take part in the caring for HIS child. I think that this is the problem with women when we love a man. We do so much for them that they don't have do anymore for themselves. We should never do everything for a man period.
dinahmite425 - Friday, 11 Sep
ps... you new i would right a hella long message!! lol
dinahmite425 - Friday, 11 Sep
girl i told you before, there is no need to file papers and take her to court to tell the judge she is not following rules all you have to do is call the police on the spot the day she does not release the child when the police show up all you and larry have to do is say today we are supposed to have our son at such and such time and she is no where to be found or she wont open the door or what ever she is doing to keep him away then show the police the document's the court documents and they will give her a citation or arrest her on the spot..GIRL AT THIS POINT YOU NEED TO TELL OFF LARRY AND DONT ASK HIM ANYTHING YOU JUST NEED TO DO MEANING the next day you all are to have his son and your available and your hubby is at work you tell him straight up dont you dare leave work and cause our household to have less money to make her happy, tell him that you dont want him to leave work and you go pick him up be prepared to call the police have the document s ready and show them she was just taken to court and your are the childs family member by marriage. thats it!!!!!!!!! let her ass go to jail for real and you know what happen to my hubby please listen to me this has to be done not just to get to see the stepchild but to TEACH HER SHE IS NOT RUnnING NOTHING ONCE YOU GIVE HER THIS Extra little perk in about 6 months to a year she will demand something else!! and she will think she will get it then when larry finally puts his foot down it would be to late and i promise she will do something crazy like my hubbys ex did!!! my hubby let her have her way all the time!!! and when he tried to get some control back she did the unthinkable when my husband tried to stand up to his ex it was too late he let her have the power for too long and so when he stopped catering to her she was pissed and wanted to hurt him and take away his son!!! girl dont go through what i went through if i new then what i know now i would have taken more control.. our hubby s are really clueless!!! they have no idea what will happen to them and you.... like you already know my step son is back in our life but it is very strange now , we feel like we are on pins and needles we are scared to disipline him in fear his mom will blow up the situation and call the police ... so really its not like he his my husbands child anymore my hubby wont let us be alone with him do to the fact he is afraid of his ex making up more stuff so now we see him in public like at his football games and we had him go skating with us but to our house...no!!! this is my hubbys rule not mine so finally he gets it!!!! it s to late though you have to stand up to the ex and larry for larrys own good. he is blinded right now and he cant see that she would do such a thing but just think about it... if the ex has all the power if she calls larry and says i dont like your wife dont bring her to his football game and he listens or dont take pics of my son with your wife in the pic and he does it then say in 2 years he gets tired of being her puppet what do you thing will happen!!!! she will go into a rage!!! and hurt you your daughter and your husband by making up anything she can to damage your family's name!!! she can call DFACS on you in a heartbeat and say anything and they have to come investagate you and your household.... at this point LARRY need to be cussed out not because your mad at him but to make him snap out of it!!! he also probably has some deep down feelings for her still that he probably will never act on but that could be causing him to give in to her!!!girl at this point i know you need someone to talk to ,,, i know this is a website but i would love to talk over the phone with you,,, im a pretty positive person so please send me a private message because i can see now what can happen if you two dont gain control NOWmy hubbys ex did the same she told the judge she doenst want me picking my stepson up and the judge stated that i was not allowed as long as we were nt married well at the time we were engaged so 3 months later we were married and she was so pissed that she new i was allowed to pick him upgirl, also the problem with her not allowing him to come has to do with how you have everything arraged!!!!remember i told you you need to get everything changed to picking him up and dropping him off at school!!! not her house not your house that way you can eliminate her not being home or not answering the door or her coming outside cussing etc so if you pick him up from school or daycare she wont be there!!! to bother you it is very important to have this detail changed the next time you go to court and i promise the judge will like the idea and change it!!! all larry has to say is the mother of his child is withholding the child on many occassions and he would rather pick up and drop off at his elementary school and daycare... so if you are to have him monday then you or larry just have to pick him up after school or at his daycare and thats eat you eliminate the drama and stess!!! my hubby told the judge he would like to pick up and drop off at school only and they put it right into the docuuments and guess what the ex was VERY PISSED why because the was one way she lost a little control!!!! she wanted all the control!!! hope this helps... i would not listen to larry at this point you will argue but hey you have to protect your family and larry is blind at this point!!! you tell larry dont he dare leave work to cater to her , thats what im saying if yo had it where he picks his son from school thre would be no need to worry about him leaving work 2 hours early!!! he cant do that every week to see his son she laready gets child support and tehn he's going to lose 10-12 hours a months also!!! hell nogirl please listen to me ,, you know i know from experience im not just talking !!!at this point
neitha - Friday, 11 Sep
i feel like this first you pray on it....then you let that hubby buy all that stuff and bathe him and do all the things that you do for his son for awhile and see dont he start appreciating you more and he also needs to put his foot down with her too.
fourboystwogirls - Friday, 11 Sep
Yes you are right but i do understand why he agreed with her. She seems like she is very immature and this might be her way of seeing him alone. I dk why women act like this you keep doing what you are doing . I would feel some kinda of way too but she letting you know she run the show when it comes to him or at least that is what she is trying to do. Dont pay it no mind your husband just wants to see his son and she is grasping at air. So what she dont want you picking him up its less running for you even though you dont mind she is just being a nut. You keep loving that little boy and supporting your husband she cant win. Its not going to end it gets better. My husband has four children by his first wife and she did not want me around them at all but we have two daughters together and that was not going to fly . I tried to talk to her and let here know i would never disrespect her or her children i have four children by my first husband and i know how things go . Girl she went off and wanted to fight come to find out she wanted my husband back . We ended up fighting though cause she tried to spit on me but i regret going there with her because that is what she wanted me to do. some women have a hard time letting go . We use to argue over her all the time calling the house whenever she felt like two three in the morning and he would not say a thing . In the end i decide not to give her some much of my energy because she didnt matter and she knew this that is why she was acting like that . She wanted my husbands attention.She stilll be acting up sometimes but i never let her know she is getting to me. I dont even say anything to him anymore because i am not going anywhere we both have children by this man and they deserve to know one another i just roll with the punches and when she get to out of line i say what i have to say and keep it moving. Wish you luck with her baby momma drama is so draining
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