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08-7-2010 - scarred

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For the last couple days me and my boyfriend are fighting alot....And today was one of the worst fights ever...we been together for almost 4 yrs and we always wanted to have a baby together..(him more then me) and now that it has finally happend its a true blessing to the both of us..but after this fight hes like he doesnt want me to contact him or let him no anything about the baby until she comes...a part of me wants to scream out and the other part is so tired of the stress...this is my first baby my first pregnancy...im just thinking of her and the stress im putting on myself and how its probably effecting her. But im scarred that she wont have the family that i dreamed of for her with this continueing to go on...I feel like if i wait till that day comes we she arrives everything will go back to normal...But without his support throu the rest of my pregnancy i feel so alone...What should i do?

4 Comments on scarred

~LuckyInL❤ve~ - Friday, 9 Jul
Awww... that sucks! The one thing that we dont know about his behavior is why... maybe he is scared??? I would just sit down with him and let him know how YOU are feeling and express to him that you need him and want to be there for him as well. re-assure him that you see only positive in your future together, and that the two of you can achieve it together and will be able to give your daughter everything that she needs. I hope that things get better for the two of you. Sincerely ~LuckyInLove

AzureRain - Friday, 9 Jul
I agree with godblessedme03... don't let a man determine ur level of happiness. I know that u don't want to give up ur relationship after 4 yrs of building it so maybe u guys just need a break for a while due to the stress of a new baby. He might be just as nervous as u are. I hope he didn't really mean what he said about only contacting him after the birth.This is my first pregnancy also and I left my husband last month. I realized that I could not raise a child in a broken relationship because she might grow to believe its ok for a man to treat her that way. Now that im gone I realize he will be a great father but there will never be a romantic relationship between us again. I wanted my baby to grow up in a two parent home, but in reality having two parents who are happy apart is the healthiest way for her to grow up.

carebear21 - Thursday, 8 Jul
Lexy I'm not a good one for advise on this situation, I have been having trouble my self. Blake wants me to go out to sing and have a good time before my little guy gets here. I want to sleep and just stay in the air condition house. I would try and tell him how much you need him and his support maybe he will come around they kinda get all freaked out somtimes with this baby stuff. Thats why we have to do it.

godblessedme03 - Thursday, 8 Jul
Let me behonest don't let the baby hold you back from making the best decsion for you nor babe. You can't make a man stay or help with the baby, like you said the baby is a blessing and if he choose to miss out it's his loss not yours. Everything happens for a reason just calm down let things die over and see what happens. If no changes then you have to proceed and stay health and strong for you and your beautful baby. You can do this stay strong and stong mined

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