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03-3-2010 - what to do...

My mood while writing this blog: Ok

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i don't know if i am overreacting or not... but last night my bf pretty much told me that he didn't find me attractive anymore, but that he still loved me. i have no idea if i should stay or if i should go... in my mind i have always thought the person i would spend the rest of my life with would think i was beautiful and would love me and think that no matter what... i really thought my bf was THE one... now i have no clue... he says he does not want me to leave or move out, but i don't think i can be in a serious relationship without having sex... i know that sex isn't everything... but its a chunk of it. and now that i know he doesn't find me attractive how do i know if he is having sex with me because he wants to or if he is feeling pity for me.... and whose to say he won't go looking else where someday for someone he is attracted to... he says he wouldn't cheat, but he doesn't know that until he is faced with the option and as far as i know he hasn't been faced with that yet... and i am only 12 weeks along.. i haven't even began to show yet, so i am for sure not going to get skinner in the next nine months...

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1 Comments on what to do...


lil.pigz - Friday, 5 Mar
For everything you have been through...and now this. I am so sorry for the sh*t luck you are having! He may just be reacting this way because he is uncomfortable with the whole pregnancy issue, and not sure how to deal with it? There were ALOT of women during my pregnancy, who's husbands absolutely refused to have sex at all. The fact that he isnt ending the relationship sounds like he is trying to sort his feelings out. A sexless relationship sounds more like room-mates, which doesnt have much binding effects.He couldve found a better way to approach the situation then popping off with what he did, but guys are NOT the greatest at that,lol. No matter what though, that baby comes first. Give him time to come to terms with what is happening. It really sounds like he is freaking over the pregnancy and the future ahead.