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17-5-2009 - Birth story and pictures! HungryMy mood while writing this blog:
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These past few days have been very long, but so rewarding.

On Wednesday, May 13, I went to the hospital around 6:30am for my induction. At this point I was 41 weeks and 1 day. Per an agreement with my doctor, they broke my water around 9 am, and started pitocin around 9:30.

During my pregnancy I was determined to have a natural birth. I was 100% anti-epidural, and was working hard on researching ways to succeed in these plans. Sadly, it didn't go as I planned. My BP was very high when I arrived at the hospital (156/109) so I was confined to the bed for monitoring. They had to constantly check my BP and give me blood pressure medicine, so I was pretty much stuck on my back.

Eventually the medicine started working and my BP went down to around 120/90. It was much better, and I was allowed out of bed. Sadly, at this point, my contractions were coming 2 minutes apart and I couldn't walk or stand through them so I just stayed in bed. Switching positions even became a huge pain. I got up to go to the bathroom and was in there for 30 minutes because I kept having contractions while trying to stand up.

I went into the hospital at 2 cm and 75% effaced. At 5 cm I was ready for some sort of pain medication so they gave me Stadol. It worked through literally 3 contractions! LOL! All it did was make me not care that I was in pain, but I could still feel it. At this point Kaydence's heartrate dropped into the 90s so they immediately moved me to my left side. Her heartrate kept dropping, so I flipped to my right side, was given oxygen, and it came back up. Because of this, I was now stuck on my right side for the remainder of my labor. After what seemed like eternity, I was 7 cm and requested an epidural. At this time my contractions were very painful and 1 minute apart. I literally was getting no break, and was in tears because I just wanted a minute to breathe without a contraction. The doctor was doing the shots during contractions so I didn't feel anything. After she was done, I felt 2 more contractions and that was it.

After I got the epidural I fell asleep. I remember being amazed that I could still feel and move my legs, but I lost all feeling in my abdomen. It was nice. Around 4:30 my best friend arrived at the hospital so I woke up to talk to her. At 5 a nurse came in to check me and said I was 10 cm and ready to push. We did a bunch of practice pushes, but I couldn't feel anything so I don't think I was pushing correctly.

Around 5:30 the pushes became effective. The nurse could see the top of Kaydence's head, and everyone in the room was in awe of how much hair she has! So, the nurse brought a mirror so I could see her hair. The mirror also allowed me to see when I was pushing correctly, so things quickly progressed. At this point I could feel that I was tearing. The nurse was concerned that the epidural was wearing off, so I pushed the button for an extra dose. By 6, I was completely ready. While the nurses and doctor were running around getting ready, I was still pushing. My doctor had to tell me to stop because her head was almost completely out no one was near me to catch her. Oops... lol.

Once everyone was in place, I pushed twice and out she came. After her head came out, it felt like the rest of her just slid out. It was amazing. My friend recorded the whole thing, and I've watched the video a few times since. I still can't believe such a big thing came out of a little hole. LOL! I ended up with a 2nd degree tear, and I was informed after delivery that there was meconium in my water.

Anyway, she was born at 6:06pm (exactly 12 hours after I received word that I could come to the hospital for my induction!!). She was 6 lbs 11.8 oz, and 20 cm. At discharge two days later, she was 6 lbs 5 oz. She is breastfeeding well, and is doing amazing.

One thing I find interesting is how much I love co-sleeping. During my pregnancy I decided not to do it because I didn't want to risk hurting her. Our first night home, she refused to sleep unless she was being held. I was exhausted so I just laid her down in my bed, and feel asleep with one arm over her. She immediately went to sleep so I was hooked. Hopefully I can get her to sleep in her crib one day though.

Last night she slept from 10pm-2am, and 3am- 8am. Her sleep schedule is awesome!!

Thanks to everyone that offered me words of encouragement and advice throughout my pregnancy. I love and appreciate all of you.

Kaydence's first time in her car seat:

Kaydence sleep on my lap:

Glamour shot:




18 Comments on Birth story and pictures!


bezzi44 - Wednesday, 27 May
Congratulations! Lover her hair. What a doll!

RileyJaydensMom - Thursday, 21 May
Aww... she is adorable. I am glad everything went well and I warned you about that potocin. I have given in on the co sleeping too. My husband doesn't like it but oh well. lol. Once again she is beautiful and congratulations.

proudmommyof3♥ - Wednesday, 20 May
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! AWWWW... she is beautiful hun'... I haven't been on in almost a week so sorry for the late Congrats but I'm so happy for you!!! TTYS

jennlb30 - Monday, 18 May
Awww...so cute!! Congrats! Those epidurals are a blessing! I was able to get a little nap before my in-laws came to visit...b/c once the Dr broke my water, I was BEGGING for that epi...those contractions HURT!!

jq baby - Monday, 18 May
She is beautiful!!! I am trying to go natural we will see how the plan goes. I know you are happy with your love at the end of your journey!!



gwendalyne - Monday, 18 May
OMG she is beautiful...I'm so happy for you!

LilMrsK - Monday, 18 May
She is super cute! I love that curly head of hair too! You did an amazing job Mommy! You should be so proud of yourself!!!!

adson - Monday, 18 May
she is so sweet good luck and congrats

babybell - Sunday, 17 May
Interesting birth story..start sounded similar to mine except i wasnt lucky enough to keep progressing..still gets me a little down on having ended up having a emergency c-section :-( BUT atleast he's here & we are both healthy, actually ATLEAST i am breast feeding too, i remember saying, well one thing im going to make sure works & thats me giving him the best food on earth !! BTW..ur daughter is cute & you done very very well, congrats on successfully putting her on the breast too !!

MAMAjo ♥ - Sunday, 17 May
she is ridiculously gorgeous!!! hey and at least you tried!!! =)

Mandy Irish Mommy - Sunday, 17 May
she is such a dote....really pretty.
i also bring mischa in the bed with us in the morning and i LOVE it, it is amazing how content they are when they are in the bed with you. glad everything went well for you and omg were now mammys...ahhh...its great!


Blessing8168 - Sunday, 17 May
She is so beautiful!!! I am so happy for you! Glad everything worked out well and your bp went down.

KeepinTheFaith - Sunday, 17 May
Oh what a perfect little girl! You did it mama. You should be so proud. Congratulations and keep in touch :)

missyv28 (pink) - Sunday, 17 May
oh might I add she looks like you!

missyv28 (pink) - Sunday, 17 May
omg she is so beautiful!!! What a great birth story and I had the same experience with my first when nobody was around to catch baby haha....I did the same with the co-sleeping because I would wake up and feed him and fall asleep while feeding him because I was so exhausted that we ended up just co-sleeping...I'm going to try to not be so lazy this time because I know if Jeremiah sleeps with us then Isaiah will want to also lol...I'm so happy for you! Enjoy your new little girl! *hugs*

karenbg - Sunday, 17 May
She is really sweet!

phoebejane - Sunday, 17 May
Look at all that hair :) She is a stunner. Well done babes x x

katey25 - Sunday, 17 May
oh my goodness - congratulations she is beautiful xxxx
Photos
6w2d ultrasound (2008, 11, 01) 7w6d (2008, 11, 01) 14w2d belly shot (2008, 11, 07) 16w4d belly shot (2008, 12, 10) 18w6d (2008, 12, 10) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasoun (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 20 week ultrasound (2008, 12, 15) 25w5d (2009, 01, 26) 25w5d front (2009, 01, 26) 3d (2009, 02, 08) Click here to see all lilmissk`s photos

Children
Kaydence-Alexis (2009)

Latest blogs
21-11-2009 - I'm back! Update!!!
22-6-2009 - Checking in!
24-5-2009 - Old page! No need to read...
22-5-2009 - Update on Kaydence!
17-5-2009 - Birth story and pictures!
15-5-2009 - She's here!
04-5-2009 - Appt 5/4/09
27-4-2009 - Appt 4/27/09 and baby shower!
20-4-2009 - Appt 4/20/09
13-4-2009 - Appt 4/13/09
07-4-2009 - Appt 4/7/09
17-3-2009 - Appt 3/17/09
26-2-2009 - Appt 2/26/09
24-2-2009 - What Not To Say To A Pregnant Woman!
24-2-2009 - Because I love surveys...
08-2-2009 - 3d ultrasound!
27-1-2009 - Appt 1/27/09
26-1-2009 - 99 Days!
21-1-2009 - Old page (no need to read...)
16-1-2009 - Stretch Marks
15-1-2009 - ER visit and some updates
26-12-2008 - Gifts to and from Kaydence!
24-12-2008 - The world knows now!
23-12-2008 - Yet another random survey!
19-12-2008 - Godparents
17-12-2008 - Appt 12/17/08
15-12-2008 - 20 week ultrasound and gender!!!
12-12-2008 - Another random survey
04-12-2008 - Appt 12/04/08
02-12-2008 - Thank you!!!
01-12-2008 - Ashamed
28-11-2008 - Doppler
17-11-2008 - Crazy dreams
11-11-2008 - Was that a kick?
06-11-2008 - Appt 11/06/08
30-10-2008 - Updates, random thoughts, stuff. lol
27-10-2008 - My mom knows now.
26-10-2008 - Sorry about that ladies... I'm back!
17-10-2008 - Telling my mom!
10-10-2008 - Update on my vent from 10/2
10-10-2008 - Appt 10/09/08
03-10-2008 - Appt 10/03/08
02-10-2008 - I need to vent!
29-9-2008 - Madame Zaritska's reading
22-9-2008 - Appt 9/22/08

Polls
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    Date: 20-4-2009 Votes: 9 Comments: 8

  2. Is it true that babies shouldn`t wear shoes before they can walk? If so, are soc...
    Date: 8-1-2009 Votes: 57 Comments: 10

  3. When buying clothes for your unborn baby, what size did you focus on? I have a t...
    Date: 31-12-2008 Votes: 54 Comments: 20

  4. What`s the difference between a pram and a stroller?...
    Date: 29-12-2008 Votes: 0 Comments: 3

  5. Has anyone used a Lansinoh Double Electric Breast Pump? I found it at Target for...
    Date: 22-12-2008 Votes: 0 Comments: 3

  6. I`m looking at buying the Eddie Bauer Deluxe 3-n-1 convertible car seat since it...
    Date: 22-12-2008 Votes: 0 Comments: 5

  7. Breastpumps: Which do you prefer and why?...
    Date: 8-12-2008 Votes: 38 Comments: 10

  8. By 10 months old, should a baby be saying something on a regular basis? My godso...
    Date: 3-12-2008 Votes: 52 Comments: 9

  9. I need help ladies!! I scratched the wood floor in my house and need tips on rem...
    Date: 30-11-2008 Votes: 0 Comments: 3

  10. What causes allergies? Specifically to food/drinks, but all answers are apprecia...
    Date: 28-11-2008 Votes: 0 Comments: 4

  11. Is it true that eating certain foods while pregnant can cause allergies? I have ...
    Date: 28-11-2008 Votes: 36 Comments: 9

  12. Have you taught your baby sign language? Please let me know how you did it, and ...
    Date: 19-11-2008 Votes: 20 Comments: 7

  13. If you used 12 weeks of FMLA for your `maternity leave`, how much of that did yo...
    Date: 18-11-2008 Votes: 1 Comments: 4

  14. I plan on teaching my baby English and French almost immediately after birth. Ca...
    Date: 17-11-2008 Votes: 3 Comments: 8

  15. What is the rule about shaving your pubic region for delivery? My mom (who had ...
    Date: 17-11-2008 Votes: 102 Comments: 11

  16. I woke up at about 3am this morning with a `full` feeling in my uterus. After ge...
    Date: 13-11-2008 Votes: 1 Comments: 8

  17. Working moms that breastfeed: How do you do it? I`ll be going back to work full-...
    Date: 12-11-2008 Votes: 2 Comments: 10

  18. Did you do the first trimester screening (test for down syndrome, spine issues, ...
    Date: 6-11-2008 Votes: 89 Comments: 17

  19. Do you like the name Kaydence?...
    Date: 5-11-2008 Votes: 69 Comments: 3

  20. For those that tore, did you or did you not do the perineal massages?...
    Date: 4-11-2008 Votes: 1 Comments: 5

  21. If you aren`t married to your child(ren)`s father, did the child(ren) get his la...
    Date: 3-11-2008 Votes: 5 Comments: 24

  22. What is meant by duration of labor?...
    Date: 1-11-2008 Votes: 59 Comments: 3

  23. How soon did you go back to work after the baby`s birth? I don`t get paid time o...
    Date: 13-10-2008 Votes: 6 Comments: 10

  24. Will you celebrate Halloween with your child(ren)? My family is deeply Christian...
    Date: 1-10-2008 Votes: 70 Comments: 22


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