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Ok, so my SIL drives me NUTS. Anyways, before she really drove me nuts was when I had found out before I was pregnant. I had told her that she could be in the delivery room. As time goes on she is making me more and more crazy. She says stupid things annoys the crap out of me and is plain rude sometimes. My DH and I have come to the terms that we want it to just be us in the room when I am pushing as well as when I am in labor. Last time I was in labor with my son I knew I was being induced and we snuck off to the house (we lived next to my MIL at the time). We waited until I was all hooked up and ready to go until we were satisfied to call family. We told her and her Dh that we would call when they could come down. I remember I was getting to be in deep pain after my water was broke and the nurse came in and said the wilkins were here to see you. I kind of said uhhh and my DR said no no one is coming in. She could tell on my face. Well anyways they made there way in. ALL 4 OF THEM. I was in such pain i just wanted them to leave. So after all that they left. The next day after all night of labor she came to the hospital 3 TIMES. 3 TIMES ladies. Her kids were so annoying running around her son had poison oak (which I did not know at the time) He held my brand new baby.
Anyways it has been bugging me to no end about them trying to get in again and how to tell her it is just going to be us in the room. I spoke with my DH today and we decided that he would tell them it is just going to be us and that is the way he wants it. I dont want to deal with them being mad at me and starting S**t. He does not care what they say about him. He said when his sister was in labor with her kids he was not informed about anything and was left at the bus stop all day.( She had her baby at 18 and they are 4 years apart) Why should she be in our room with us.
Another thing that is bothering me in that we find out the sex on the 21st and we wanted it to be just the 3 of us. Well my mom text me today and asked if she could come. She does not live close and last time her my dad and MIL were in the room. So I did not want to say no to her. So if we have my mom we would have to have his mom. Which to me in fine. BUT my SIL on the other hand would want to come and if her mother was there why not her. We want to say that they only allow a certain amount of people in the room and with 6 already in the room one more would be to much. I cant say that though because she has her dr in the same office and her Dh is friends with her dr..(weird I know) Anyways long rant but I am finally feeling better. I know it is about us and not them and if they are mad they are mad but they (SIL & MIL) have a way of making life hell if they dont get there way. I swear it is like the paparazzi trying to keep things personal between us. I told my niece that we were not going to tell anyone the names since she is trying to find out (which pisses me off too) and she told my MIL and she then said "so your keeping the name a secret" with a look of I cant believe you are. I lied and said no only from Taylor because she has a big mouth. But we aren't going to tell anyone. They want to know everything in our life, and I cant stand it. We will just lead them on with that one saying we don't know. UGGHH I hate dealing with family!!!!!
2 Comments on Annoyed with SIL
MarahGB - Saturday, 15 Aug
Hey Lisa! It's Marah! Emily told me to get on here. Anyways, I know what you mean about in-laws. Joemal and I decided, no one will be with us at any dr. appointments or delivery. We are not going to call anyone until the baby is already born. I had a friend who told her mom that she would call her once the baby was born, and she could come, and they called to say she was in labor, and they would let her know when the baby got here...well, she hoped on a plane and got there, and the girl ended up being in labor for 2 days after her water broke. They told her mother she needed to go to a hotel. In-laws are hard to deal with though.
rickettsrules - Monday, 10 Aug
What have you got yourself into woman? It's so hard keeping peace with the in-laws at the best of times. I think you have to put your foot down, and tell everyone that things are getting out of hand, and you don't want to exclude anyone from appointments/labour room so you have decided the NO ONE is allowed to be there. Are you able to be honest with your Mum? If so, you could tell her the situation and explain that if you let her come to the appointment, you have to let everyone else as well, she's more likely to understand you and that would be telling her no without hurting her feelings too much. You are one brave lady, there's no way in hell I would let my in-laws come to Dr appointments, let alone in the labour room with us!Try to be the bigger person and be honest, and remember that if the in laws do all have the shits with you for a while, they'll get over it eventually.
| 10-8-2009 - Annoyed with SIL |  My mood while writing this blog:Annoyed |
Ok, so my SIL drives me NUTS. Anyways, before she really drove me nuts was when I had found out before I was pregnant. I had told her that she could be in the delivery room. As time goes on she is making me more and more crazy. She says stupid things annoys the crap out of me and is plain rude sometimes. My DH and I have come to the terms that we want it to just be us in the room when I am pushing as well as when I am in labor. Last time I was in labor with my son I knew I was being induced and we snuck off to the house (we lived next to my MIL at the time). We waited until I was all hooked up and ready to go until we were satisfied to call family. We told her and her Dh that we would call when they could come down. I remember I was getting to be in deep pain after my water was broke and the nurse came in and said the wilkins were here to see you. I kind of said uhhh and my DR said no no one is coming in. She could tell on my face. Well anyways they made there way in. ALL 4 OF THEM. I was in such pain i just wanted them to leave. So after all that they left. The next day after all night of labor she came to the hospital 3 TIMES. 3 TIMES ladies. Her kids were so annoying running around her son had poison oak (which I did not know at the time) He held my brand new baby.
Anyways it has been bugging me to no end about them trying to get in again and how to tell her it is just going to be us in the room. I spoke with my DH today and we decided that he would tell them it is just going to be us and that is the way he wants it. I dont want to deal with them being mad at me and starting S**t. He does not care what they say about him. He said when his sister was in labor with her kids he was not informed about anything and was left at the bus stop all day.( She had her baby at 18 and they are 4 years apart) Why should she be in our room with us.
Another thing that is bothering me in that we find out the sex on the 21st and we wanted it to be just the 3 of us. Well my mom text me today and asked if she could come. She does not live close and last time her my dad and MIL were in the room. So I did not want to say no to her. So if we have my mom we would have to have his mom. Which to me in fine. BUT my SIL on the other hand would want to come and if her mother was there why not her. We want to say that they only allow a certain amount of people in the room and with 6 already in the room one more would be to much. I cant say that though because she has her dr in the same office and her Dh is friends with her dr..(weird I know) Anyways long rant but I am finally feeling better. I know it is about us and not them and if they are mad they are mad but they (SIL & MIL) have a way of making life hell if they dont get there way. I swear it is like the paparazzi trying to keep things personal between us. I told my niece that we were not going to tell anyone the names since she is trying to find out (which pisses me off too) and she told my MIL and she then said "so your keeping the name a secret" with a look of I cant believe you are. I lied and said no only from Taylor because she has a big mouth. But we aren't going to tell anyone. They want to know everything in our life, and I cant stand it. We will just lead them on with that one saying we don't know. UGGHH I hate dealing with family!!!!!
2 Comments on Annoyed with SIL
MarahGB - Saturday, 15 Aug
Hey Lisa! It's Marah! Emily told me to get on here. Anyways, I know what you mean about in-laws. Joemal and I decided, no one will be with us at any dr. appointments or delivery. We are not going to call anyone until the baby is already born. I had a friend who told her mom that she would call her once the baby was born, and she could come, and they called to say she was in labor, and they would let her know when the baby got here...well, she hoped on a plane and got there, and the girl ended up being in labor for 2 days after her water broke. They told her mother she needed to go to a hotel. In-laws are hard to deal with though.
rickettsrules - Monday, 10 Aug
What have you got yourself into woman? It's so hard keeping peace with the in-laws at the best of times. I think you have to put your foot down, and tell everyone that things are getting out of hand, and you don't want to exclude anyone from appointments/labour room so you have decided the NO ONE is allowed to be there. Are you able to be honest with your Mum? If so, you could tell her the situation and explain that if you let her come to the appointment, you have to let everyone else as well, she's more likely to understand you and that would be telling her no without hurting her feelings too much. You are one brave lady, there's no way in hell I would let my in-laws come to Dr appointments, let alone in the labour room with us!Try to be the bigger person and be honest, and remember that if the in laws do all have the shits with you for a while, they'll get over it eventually.
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