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21-5-2008 - wooo-saaahhhh warning "Baby daddy" drama..i hate that damn word!!

My mood while writing this blog: doing my best to think happy thoughts..->not werkin

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hey there preggo's!

trish here...still pregnant and slowly going INSANE.no worries though, ill manage..just need to do alittle venting... starting with that LOSER GRAIG COOPER aka Mekhi's dead beat father..he ticked me off AGAIN today..and instead of arguing.. ill just vent through this blog. well for those of you who have been here..you know the deal..for those who dont..basically..we were dating for about a year..i got pregnant and he started to change and tried talking me into an abortion. (obviously i didnt listen)..so he "stopped loving me" because i was "ruining his life and trying to make him miserable". so we went are seperate ways, me determined to do this alone..and him determined to ignore the situation and act as if we woudl both disappear, anywho as time went on.. i discovered that he was cheating on me anyway..with not one..but TWO girls. why didnt i see it coming? i could make excuses but the fact is..i didnt see what kind of guy he truly was because i didnt want too. =getting bit in the a**. ok so lets jump to the present 9months later with Mekhi (unborn son's name) only days away from coming into this world..he has yet to make ANY apptz..not ONE! and hasnt made any attempts to even pick up the phone and ask about the baby. oh yeah he didnt tell his family who all live in memphis by the way i was pregnant til around my 4th going on 5th month..(they faked concern in the beginning but that lasted all of a few weeks and havent heard from any of them since around new years) soo anyway bak to the vent..thanks to God & and my wonderful friends and family, my little boy is BLESSED. he 2 of everything he needs..like honestly..we were so fortunate we were able to give out stuff and he has a room at both my dads and moms house. so about a few weeks ago..ill say around mid april..i asked him to buy khi a humidifer (sp?) & a bottle sterlizer a whopping $100 at the most..he told me he would. till this day MAY 20th he hasnt..long story short he hasnt gotten mekhi anything!! not a pacifer not a pack of pampers NOTHIIING! & i havent nagged, bitched or anything to him. yet! hes in the club throwing money every tuesday night, just bought a 400$ phone for him and one for his gf.. and basically brags about all the money he spends on the daily and about spoiling and wiring money to his gf.. still for the sake of my sanity and to not cause problems i dont say anything..i just pray about it and do my best to not get both his legs broken!!!.. BUT today i aimed him and askesd if he would be able to pay for Mekhi circumsion(i spell that right?) or would i have to take care of that myself too? (his insurance will cover it BUT not untill hes at least 6months old..and i refuse to put him thro that kinda pain when hes that old, & at the moment i dont have the 300$ it cost. my parents do..but i dont feel its there problem to deal with). long story short, he never wrote me back. i said yeah i figured az much.. then i find out!! thro a mutual friend from UM (the school he plays for) that she just saw him with his Gf and they were carrying suitcases up to his room..talking about going to the improv tonight (a comedy club on south beach) so basically thats where his moneys going..instead of taking care of something THAT important for his son..& another !! thing i try very hard to be a good christian and live right and AVOID drama. but i know for a FACT that if his girlfriend shows up at the hospital...my friends will make sure she ends up getting a room too! (but thats even if HE comes) anyway my blog was going to be much longer but im having contractions and i feeling very sick, so im gunna run to the bathroom..hopefully ill be back to continue update on things other than him...so untill then ladys keep me in your prayers please..because im really trying hard not to be a "babymomma" and get spiteful and evil

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3 Comments on wooo-saaahhhh warning "Baby daddy" drama..i hate that damn word!!


bobbette89 - Thursday, 5 Jun


love and miss you.
i havent been on here til this week
and dont have much time then.
ur little man is gorgeous-i hope ur doing good
i will keep praying for you and him and the bf situation.
ttyl
(((hugs))) bobbette


LIZ82 - Wednesday, 21 May
girl i will keep you in prayers . i know how it feels to have to deal with a no good dead beat a@# hole .

kapricesfirstbaby - Wednesday, 21 May
you're having contractions?!!!!!!!
Yaaaayyyy!!!!!!!