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3 Comments on Can you help me
Honeybees - Thursday, 6 Aug
sorry i didnt see your message till now, i cannot assist but can relate to your problem a little, i know how hard it is when your ex is a flatulating geraff pizal. i lived in south carolina for exactly 6 months, 3 with my husbend, three after he was removed from out navy base home there, there laws say if you live in a state for 6 months married, and try to get devorced it has to be there, i lived in maine b4 the 6 and after the 6 months i came home to try to get devorced with our daughter and unborn son, cause he was not a fit parrent, it took 4 years to finally get devorced and than another wile b4 i started seeing child saport, the thing is i had to fight from my state to get him to pay he wanted nothing to do with any of us, i think he was in disbelief i would leav him, any way we finally got it finalised, and he went back and fourth, first he told the layers to advicate, first, he said he would give up all perental rights and responsibilitys and they would be all mine but he wouldnt have to pay any thing to me, i said i dont think so he is helping me wile they grow up, its expencive, you know, all together, he has to give us 7 days written notice to visit them, but our daughter who was 14 months when he last saw her is now 6 years old and our son he hasnt met is 4, i love them so much i wouldnt trade them for any thing, my x hasnt tried to meet, ask about or enquire of them at all but now though his work is forced by law to pay for them through the banks so it is noi hassle to me, i think its great but 4 and a half years is a long time to raise kids with the help of my mom, and the state, it was all worth it, now im remarried to a really wonderfull man, and we have a son and ~out~ second due in january, i just want you to know it will be ok, you gotta be touph, and stand up for yourself and your baby, ur working for the best things for your babys future and dont ever loos sight of the importance that you are to ur little angel. stick to it girlm, dont give in, if he wants to be in the babys life its up to him, but it has to be fare to you, dont walk away with feelings of contempt or hurtfness, ur the babys mom, you should get best rule for that alone. good luck, i hope things are looking up soon, please keep me up to date on how it goes, good luckyour friend ~Heidy
Baby-Beiler - Monday, 3 Aug
no way! what a jerk...(to be nice) i cant believe he would walk out on you while you are pregnant with his child and then come back to try to take your little boy... what i know about custody is that most of the time judges favor the mother... so you are already kind of at an advantage. second make yourself look as good as possible. before you go into court make sure you have a house, a job, a good person to watch your little guy if you work out of the house, a car... etc. etc. without these things the judge might turn custody over to the ex...and is there any way you can move back home now?
jess121 - Thursday, 30 Jul
Sorry to hear you are going through this! I unfortunately can't be of any help regarding custody in MD. Florida sounds like a good option!! always sunny :)
| 30-7-2009 - Can you help me |  My mood while writing this blog:Ok |
Ladies, I desperately need some advice from women who have been there or who can connect me with women who have been there. Has anyone gone through a custody battle in the State of Maryland in the past few years??? Please let me know ASAP. Thank you so very much!!!!
3 Comments on Can you help me
Honeybees - Thursday, 6 Aug
sorry i didnt see your message till now, i cannot assist but can relate to your problem a little, i know how hard it is when your ex is a flatulating geraff pizal. i lived in south carolina for exactly 6 months, 3 with my husbend, three after he was removed from out navy base home there, there laws say if you live in a state for 6 months married, and try to get devorced it has to be there, i lived in maine b4 the 6 and after the 6 months i came home to try to get devorced with our daughter and unborn son, cause he was not a fit parrent, it took 4 years to finally get devorced and than another wile b4 i started seeing child saport, the thing is i had to fight from my state to get him to pay he wanted nothing to do with any of us, i think he was in disbelief i would leav him, any way we finally got it finalised, and he went back and fourth, first he told the layers to advicate, first, he said he would give up all perental rights and responsibilitys and they would be all mine but he wouldnt have to pay any thing to me, i said i dont think so he is helping me wile they grow up, its expencive, you know, all together, he has to give us 7 days written notice to visit them, but our daughter who was 14 months when he last saw her is now 6 years old and our son he hasnt met is 4, i love them so much i wouldnt trade them for any thing, my x hasnt tried to meet, ask about or enquire of them at all but now though his work is forced by law to pay for them through the banks so it is noi hassle to me, i think its great but 4 and a half years is a long time to raise kids with the help of my mom, and the state, it was all worth it, now im remarried to a really wonderfull man, and we have a son and ~out~ second due in january, i just want you to know it will be ok, you gotta be touph, and stand up for yourself and your baby, ur working for the best things for your babys future and dont ever loos sight of the importance that you are to ur little angel. stick to it girlm, dont give in, if he wants to be in the babys life its up to him, but it has to be fare to you, dont walk away with feelings of contempt or hurtfness, ur the babys mom, you should get best rule for that alone. good luck, i hope things are looking up soon, please keep me up to date on how it goes, good luckyour friend ~Heidy
Baby-Beiler - Monday, 3 Aug
no way! what a jerk...(to be nice) i cant believe he would walk out on you while you are pregnant with his child and then come back to try to take your little boy... what i know about custody is that most of the time judges favor the mother... so you are already kind of at an advantage. second make yourself look as good as possible. before you go into court make sure you have a house, a job, a good person to watch your little guy if you work out of the house, a car... etc. etc. without these things the judge might turn custody over to the ex...and is there any way you can move back home now?
jess121 - Thursday, 30 Jul
Sorry to hear you are going through this! I unfortunately can't be of any help regarding custody in MD. Florida sounds like a good option!! always sunny :)
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