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| 14-1-2009 - what else can i do?? |
My mood while writing this blog: fat |
ok so as you may be aware ive been having non productive contractions/braxton hicks more or less constantly for too long now..
ive had a few grunty agony up the fantoosh ones and a crampy back and they are so regular and last for hours to the point that i dont even notice them anymore.. then they die down and life is normal for a wee while then they start up again.
im having a section so as soon as they can tell that im in labour in pretty much good to go. at the hospital the other week they took ages to decide if it was labour or not - there was no cervical change so the consultant sent me home.
yesterday i had agony hot hot cramps my tummy was running through me and i thought with the nice regular pains that last night would tip the balance and id be able to go in and have my baby.
but no.. and god knows i bloody tried.. i had oil of evening primrose , raspberry leaf tablets and a whole pot of super strong rasp tea. i had sex with a nice big O to try and get things going but no... (ive been doing all these things most nights for quite a long time now)
i am iron lady..im starting to think my cervix is made of stone.. i got it frozen last year as it used to bleed and im thinking mabies its still like a popcicle and wont actually react at all??
i dont want to wait till next week when the baby will be about 10lbs.. im going to miss that new baby experience again when i give birth to a 5 year old.. ive loved being pregnant but im a bit pissed off with all these crappy painful contractions / branston pickles and not actually getting anywhere.
what will i do.. any replies of 'wait till next wednesday like you are meant to' will result in laser beams being shot out my eyes
its my last day at work as well today :( i have no internet at home so will miss you all LOADS and LOADS
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5 Comments on what else can i do??hetibelle -
Wednesday, 14 Jan NO FLIPPING INTERNET!!!!!!!!!!!!
MRS YOU BETTER TXT ME!!
07900694970!!!
t*dolly -
Wednesday, 14 Jan I think the oscar performance is the way forward. Scream shout. Tell them their machines are wrong and if they don't do the c-section right now you will be having the baby in the corridor and then you will go to the news papers.
Can't believe your not going to be around after today. Am seriously thinking about starting up some kind charity. "The Lucky laptop fund" or something. Please do you best to let us all know when you do have the little one. Will miss you on here.x kanojoca -
Wednesday, 14 Jan I agree with polly and go to the RAH and put on an oscar appearance miss heather, i know its in you, i'll accompany you if you like. Or get on that sex wagan tonight for a good few hours, if scotts not up to it then bring on the bunny!!
Enough is enough god damn it, and you explain that to them.
As for the internet what about buying one of those three things that plug into your computer, do you have a computer at home...if you dont we have one sitting here, should of told me earlier just before xmas kevan won another laptop from work and we sold it cheap to a mate at uni cause we didnt' it. But there is a computer here sitting her that i want him to throw out, not attractive but should do the trick.
Got my last exam tomorow morning then midwife at 12:30 feeling like some company after that??? polly76 -
Wednesday, 14 Jan Will telling fibs and bringing on an oscar willing performance convince the hospital!?? Go into L&D and tell them how painful the contractions are and you can't cope anymore!? Try tears tantrums and all sorts! Can't harm to try! Go on, it might get you the result you want!! I know when they check you they'll obviously see how far you are on but surely only you can say that you can't cope anymore! Try and keep us all posted! You're welcome to come use my internet anytime lady! Also there are the odd internet cafe ? Take care and we'll miss you! Good luck on your last day! x elliel -
Wednesday, 14 Jan Oh hun! Funny how we want we don't have. I'm really keen to have a big fat baby this time round as I had a tiddler last time and they seem so much more delicate than lovely chubby cheeked babies. I used to be so jealous of ladies with their big bonny baby...while Zac looked so tiny (though he has caught up now and is perfect).
Unfortunately I have absolutely no idea how to speed things up with your iron cervix. Even my weedy rubbish cervix is deciding to stay strong (just when I don't want it too!)....sounds like you are doing everything poss. Week 38 are going on about castor oil but I have no idea if that is safe or not. And maybe you've already tried it.
I can't 'believe you will be out of contact from t/m....everyone will miss you so much. Can you get one of your friends to post when you have little one?
Heloise x