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14-1-2009 - what the heck!!!!!

My mood while writing this blog:
disappointed

ok so in my last blog i told yall about how they didnt schedule me back for 2 weeks (the 16th which is friday) well i called and threw a fit and forced myself an appointment with another doctor, well i went on monday and im still only a cm and a half dialated, hes down there but not low enough, somehting about my cervix hasnt dropped fully yet or something....ive still had NO contractions besides some braxton hicks...

so whats the deal???? is he coming?????

i kept my appointment for friday so i go back to get checked AGAIN and i just know its going to disappoint me AGAIN! im making no progress ladies!!!!!!! ive been doing all the home remedies to speed things up and nothing is working...not sex, not natural labor excersizes, not walking, not cleaning, not spicey foods, NOTHING! im so miserable and all I want is my lil man and hes no where to be found!

everyone keeps telling me to enjoy the time i have right now but its so hard to when im so uncomfortable and cant sleep and im swollen and my blood pressure is high and the list goes on and on...

i need some prayers ladies!!!!!!!

and my biggest thing is i do NOT, i repeat i do NOT want a c-section, and they already told me they are going to do one if he hits 9 pounds and he is pushing 8 as of monday.....

im just so disappointed and sad and miserable and just all together READY and it feels like im making absolutely no progress and i feel like i have NO signs that labor is on its way.

HELP ME! WHAT CAN I DO!??!?!?!

4 Comments on what the heck!!!!!

Beauti - Thursday, 15 Jan
*****HUGS*****
I know the agony of it all!! However honey when that lil guy is ready to pop out, he will. I def understand being so uncomfortable @ the point, but you have to admit h that your lil dude is so worth it!!! Beofe you know it you'll be saying wow time really flies and Brayden has gotten so big...i know it seems like forever NOW but in reality it's not. Those are the words of wisdom, I try to remember for myself. Also remember how blessed we are @ this moment so many women would love to complain about the things, we complain about, we are truly blessed with the backaches, sleepless nights and all...we are blessed!!! I hope, he pops the stands soon!!! I'm thinking of you!

*smoochies*
~Beauti

bezzi44 - Thursday, 15 Jan
I'm going to tell you things you probably don't want to hear... you've still got to 42 weeks max but they wont let you go that long. Plus, it's easier to take care of a baby inside than out.... bla bla bla... i feel the cyber slap = he he.

Serioulsy tho, PG is so different from one woman to the other and even on PG to the other. You can be closed tight and nothing going on and the doc says "see you next week" and bam! Go into labor that night. Mother Nature has her own plans for us and I wish we could control her more.

Praying the baby stays small tho!

taelynnzmommy - Wednesday, 14 Jan
aww im sorry about how miserable you are! I think most of us feel that way! I've been told that it just depends on the baby! you can have 0 dilation and effacement and an hour later be completely dilated and effaced! So don't get discouraged! and then their are people who are effaced and dilated for weeks or even a month! He will be here soon I've read about Rasberry leaf tea helps induce labor. I wouldn't recommend Castor oil, I know a girl who did that and the baby had a bowel movement before being born and it made her really sick and the baby. You still have a week left til your DD so maybe you will progress this week! good luck I will pray for you! keep us updated!

samanthapadron - Wednesday, 14 Jan
awwww girl... i hope things get better for u... he'll be her b4 u know it!!! will the doc not induce u or nething?? i go back to the doc monday and he told me that he would induce me if i havent had him by the end of my 37th week....

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