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mamadear04
	Age: 31 Country: US Province/region: Nevada City: Las Vegas Partner: Roy Children: Yes, 4 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: Stay home mom/Sunday School teacher
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14-6-2009 - My turn to vent

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Hello Mommy's......Well today I have felt so sad, and offended....For those who dont know I have 2 kids already from a past relationship, they are 2 girls 11, and 13...I left there dad 9 years ago because we had a bad relationship, and I was very young..It was not easy, but I ended up with the kids after , many court dates, and a huge fight for them...He wanted them as much as I did.....He has had summer visits with them for years up to a few years ago when he got married ....Well he had stop even calling them after they had there first child, and it has been killing my kids..He stop even calling them on birthdays, and hasn't even sent them a card........When they had there first child there dad called me on my birthday and said " happy birthday my little girl was born to day so now its her birthday too"...Well I just thought that was funny....Whats the odds of that..He could of waited till after my birthday to call, but no......So when I found out I was pregnant, and his mom called me I told her I was pregnant and she said, Oh Jeff and his wife are haveing a nother child too...Well It id bother me that she was pregnant again, because he does not take care of the kids that he already has ..It mostly upset my kids....When I was getting ready for church this morning his mom called to tell me that she had her baby and to let my girls no that they have a new brother...Then she told me his name...They named him Jessie........Well, the reason that upsets me so much is because my kids names are Brittany, and Jessica....We call Jessica,,,,Jessie, or Jess..........How can they do that...You would think they would not give there kid a name so close to almost the same as one of there other kids....Well, I think my kids step mom is heartless....How dare her....I went to church crying away...Why would they do this ? There grandma told me "Well I not going to call Jessica , Jess, Or Jessie any more"...I said " well, I am ...I have been calling her that since she was a baby...... Well, I beter stop now I know this is long, im just so upset.....

3 Comments on My turn to vent

krisdazy - Monday, 15 Jun
SO sorry to hear that it just breaks my heart for your lil girls. Nothing can replace a dads love I should know My father was the same way with me as soon as they had my lil brother and my parents were still together. It just made me a stronger person and taught me that you dont need to rely on other peoples affections, just look to God for love he always has plenty for you!

sugarcubesandcottoncandy - Sunday, 14 Jun
hey sweety. It seems to me that he hasnt been able to get over his children. and thats why he chooses to name his baby boy jessie, much like your daughter. i think he is looking to replace their loss in his life and hence the kids and their names. also, being in touch with your lovely daughters tells him that he cannot replace them and he is fighting that in not keepin in touch with you guys. Its his loss. These are his demons to battle. dont make them yours. your daughters have a wonderful mom and in time, will realize that you are the only one thats really there. calling on birthdays will not make him any more of a dad than contributing semen will. dads, protect, teach, adore, respect, gaurd and love. if he cant do all of that, then well, you are better off without the cards and the doughnut meetings. in time your daughters will see the essence of it too. till then, may god give you the strength.

RiaDia - Sunday, 14 Jun
omg, that's rediculous. Obviouslt she is heartless!! It's probably her that he doesn't even call them or anything. I would be soo mad!! I have my step son & I am doing everything to make him feel involved & loved!! This is my first child but he is the older one & was here first & he's mine to. I hate people like that!! I am sorry. If she is that bad your girls probably don't need to be around her or him, they would just ignored. They are just kids though it's not fair.

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