19-6-2009 - more Ex WIFE drama

My mood while writing this blog: irriatated

Ok this woman is some piece of work, first she does everything in her power to make my husbands kids (16yr old boy and 10 year old girl) mad at my husband over her lies, we have talked with them untill we are blue in the fact but when it comes right down to it, they are being pulled in two diffrent directions hearing two diffrent stories, and as ADULTS we understand that they are struggling with their mother putting them in the middle of all this, all becaue SHE cant handle Tod is having a baby with me and is a father to my 4 year old. The kids up untill about 2 weeks ago have been excited and all the kids got along great together.....mind you she lives with a man that has two kids so its not the first time the kids have been exposed to divorced/remarried blended families.

Yesterday she had the NERVE to email my husband and lecture him on how "DARE HE" refure to me and my son as his "faimly" all because she was snooping and found a picture of the three of us on his myspace that had the caption saying "arent we an awesome looking family" it was takin on mothers day so naturally his kids were not with us that day. and another picture calling me his princess and my son his "pride" now mind you there are plenty of pics on both of our internet pages of his kids with simular pet name captions. but she went on to say how the "kids" were really hurt by those pictures becasue he never calls his daughter "princess" and his son "pride" how freaking petty is that. first of all im his wife so what he calls me shouldnt be compared to what pet name he calls his daughter, secondly my husband glows about his kids ALL of them. and to accuse him of favoring one over the other is such BS. its unfortunate that the fact is that YES my husband and my son do spend more time together than he spends with his kids due to the fact we only see them every other weekend, IF she decides to let them come over and hasnt filled their heads with a bunch of crap lies. So because their relationship didnt work out my husband is supposed to be punished and not allowed to enjoy his life or do anything with us as a family unless it happens to fall on one of the few days we see his children. Well the kids being immature and CHILDREN have jumped on the band wagon and now accused my husband of gong and getting a new family......which of couse made my husband feel terrible and all this 3 days before fathers day! im so angry at her and to be honest im really dissaponinted in his kids, esp his son who should be old enough to know better. My husband and me have done everything we can think of to keep them involved with the pregnancy, I went shopping with his daughter to pick out Amelia's coming home outfit, Tod and Toddy picked out the paint for the nursery and painted. we always plan fun activities when we have them and make sure my husband is spending some quality time with his kids when we do have them since its so limited and to get my son and his kids to bond which was working great till recently. now what do we do. stop living our life becasue it may hurt their feelings, when it is there choice to not come see their dad? we even moved closer in hopes to see them more than just every other weekend. im so frustrated and i hate seeing my husband so torn. i just dont know what to do

Thanks for letting me rant, anyone with suggestions let me know