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meecob
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12-8-2008 - now that I have something you want you'll talk to me besiegedMy mood while writing this blog:
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my parents first grandbaby + his parents first grandbaby + 17 weeks along = one overwhelmed, overemotional girl.

“All the women who independent – throw your hands up at me”

I have been on my own for nine years. My own bills, my own laundry, my own furniture, my own. I handle my own – and I think I do a pretty damn good job. I put myself through college, graduated with a Bachelor’s, while I worked full time…I paid to go through massage therapy classes and became certified. I bought my car. I cook my dinners. I furnished my own apartment - with a few hand-me-downs from Dad – but mostly all bought new. My cats have been around for seven years, so I must be doing something right there. I am proud of myself. I AM PROUD OF MYSELF!

But now….now I’m pregnant and I have a mom on each shoulder. Annoying. If none of you have experienced this yet, smile.

“tell me some names you are considering?” “secretly, what do you really want?” “are you eating enough fruits & veggies?” “make sure you exercise, it’ll make labor easier” “have you thought about what color you are doing in your nursery” “ you better start registering for baby stuff” “have you felt it move yet?” “what are you craving?” “what makes you sick?” “are you and jake getting married?” ….etc….

Since when did everyone get so involved in my life?!

PS: I just spent the weekend visiting family, mine and Jake’s, we haven’t had a day to ourselves yet.




2 Comments on now that I have something you want you'll talk to me


meecob - Wednesday, 13 Aug
don't get me wrong...I love my family a ton! I appreciate all of their concern and i know that I'll appreciate all of their help with babysitting and such. Four consecutive days was just too much for me. I'm too used to my own space and quiet. I've now been parent free for almost two full days and feeling good! - hehehehehe - silly hormones ;)

GoonieMomma - Wednesday, 13 Aug
Hehe, rock on. Now add on to this that all the women I work with are overly concerned Chinese Moms. If you've ever had to deal with the stereotypical "Jewish Mother," they're a lot like that! "Now, are you taking your prenatal vitamins?" That one killed me and I spouted back, "If there's anything I can do to ever ensure the health, safety, and loving nuturing of this child, just assume I'm doing it. Because I'm the one who loves this baby most now and forever, and that was a horribly invasive, rude question. I never ask about your medical conditions, or the state of your uterus. Mine will never be the topic of discussion, either." Just wait for the, "So, how big of a family DO you plan on having...?" MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AS YOU'RE NOT FUNDING IT!
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