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09-2-2009 - UPDATE#3

My mood while writing this blog: SAD, HURT

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Well after being pretty sick all weekend, thinking that was a good sign I woke up this morning feeling much better and having a small amount of brown spotting. I went in knowing pretty much how it was gonna turn out. Did an u/s and the sac had grown but nothing at all inside it so yet again I have lost another one. Im waiting for them to call back with my bloodwork but I really dont need it. Im not wanting a D&C at all this time Im hoping it will happen on its own but the doc said my cervix looked good si its still closed. Anyway Im okay with it, I had prepared myself for it like always but each time I manage to find a litle hope but that is lost quickly. We are not going to try again, its too much physically on my body and too much emotionally. We are really going to pursue adoption although we have no resources or info or where to begin. Thanks to everyone I will be hanging around here to keep tabs on all you wonderful ladies

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14 Comments on UPDATE#3


kbielec - Monday, 13 Apr
Can I ask you something? Did they give you any reason why this may be happening to you? I met someone else on this site that has had many experiences like yourself and they found she needed some shots daily to help her get through it. I need them too...just curious if they found anything...

chips - Tuesday, 10 Feb
dear sweetheart!........I am sorry......I really dont know what to say!..............sending you so much love and a bighug.................
always here for you to talk.................bighug!
Godbless you sweetie!


kristin:armywife07 - Tuesday, 10 Feb
Try Homes of Saint Mark. I was born in Houston, and adopted through that agency. They are a wonderful group of people!

longed4baby - Tuesday, 10 Feb
Im sorry hun, i hope you and your husband are coping ok xx

ready2bamommy - Monday, 9 Feb
Oh I'm so sorry for your loss! I will be praying for you and your DH, may you both find comfort during this time. I know that you will be blessed and it will happen when you least expect it. Best of luck and keep me updated!

vicki*n*apple - Monday, 9 Feb
I am so sorry to hear this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

danni74 - Monday, 9 Feb
I am so sorry. You and your husband are in my thoughts.

aussie-jess - Monday, 9 Feb
So sorry about your loss... My sister inlaw adopted a beautiful little girl from Ethiopia, she is the most gorgeous little girl, and so intelligent! She is almost 2, and they went and got her when she was 8 months old. They never had any problems bonding, and it was a great experience! It is a long wait, but honestly, so is being pregnant! Please keep me updated on the adoption process! It is such an amazing experience, and i know it will bring you so much hapiness!!!

wyattsmommy - Monday, 9 Feb
Oh hun i'm so sorry to hear this. Adoption is a wonderful thing I would love to adopt, but any info i've been able to get on it we aren't in the position to be able to afford to do it.: ( Have you spoken to a fertility specialist? Maybe they can figure out what is causing you to miscarry and possibly provide you some treatment? Just a suggestion I know a few ladies on here who have had troubles with miscarriages and got put on something and went on to have healthy pregnancy's. Just a suggestion though you do what is best for you! I'll be thinking of you...

RubyLove - Monday, 9 Feb
I'm so sorry to hear this :( I cant imagine how hard this must be on u. U are in my prayers..and I just wanted to tell u dont give up..keep fighting and go see agood doc to find out why this is happening. God bless.

firstmommy08 - Monday, 9 Feb
Monica, I am sorry. That's all I can say. If you want to talk, I'm here. Sam

mummy05 - Monday, 9 Feb
oh no hunni i hope your ok!!im so sorry!!xxx

LvBNaMommy - Monday, 9 Feb
Oh Dammit!!!! I'm so sorry! I know how frustrating this all is for you hun!! I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do! Like lilshell said, it may be too early also!! Plwase keep me posted!!!

lilshell77 - Monday, 9 Feb
I read your post and just wanted to say don't give up. I too had early ultrasounds and there was only a sac. The first one I had they said I was 6 weeks, then I went back 1 week later and still only a sac that had grown, went back another week after that and the baby was finally there. At that time they put me at 6 weeks even though 2 weeks earlier they said 6 weeks. So don't give up just yet it might still be a bit early. Even on ultrasound in the early days they can get the dating wrong. Just give it a bit more time and take care.