21-6-2009 - My stubborn daughter!

My mood while writing this blog: disappointed but still amused

So we went for our SECOND appointment this morning for our 3D/4D sonogram. Last time she wasnt too cooperative and had her face in her placenta so there wasnt enough fluid to get a good shot. Well guess what? She did it again lol. And i was doing the most ridiculous things to make it work. Walking, rolling from side to side, jumping up and down, pacing the room, drinking cold water. And after i was done rolling back and forth bare belly, covered in goo... she went even FURTHER into the placenta. So it got rescheduled... again. This time in 4 weeks from now. Ill be 30 weeks then. Hopefully she gets into a good position. So yea thats how that went. We're about to head to NJ to go see my cousin and her husband for a bbq theyre having. Omar's fine-tuning details with the guy about the job, he says he has the job and hes just finishing paperwork and waiting to start, so thats good as long as the guy was being for real with him. Hmm what else... on a completely random note, i made an awesome fruit salad the other day lol. I was sooo excited about it. My belly is much bigger and rounder... i really gotta take a pic soon. Ive been getting a little more heartburn recently but otherwise i cant complain. I cant weigh myself though cause the scale was taken out of the bathroom for my sisters wedding, itll be put back in soon i think so then ill check. Ahh my sisters wedding... well heres the story...

So my dress was a disaster, it was WAYYYY too big and then they altered it wrong. So i picked it up the day before the wedding and was horrified at how it looked. It was ankle length still when it was supposed to be tea length. The straps were too big, and the upper part(it was empire style) was not taken in enough. You could see down the back if you looked. I felt like a purple hippo. So then the next morning(the day of the wedding) i went to blums, a lingerie store, and they put me in a good strapless bra and whoooaaa they put me in a 40DD, when in usually a 38B or a 38C... i was like damn. They said im a D but i need the bigger one cause they put a little pad in it, cause the dress made me look flat and frumpy, so it "filled me out" a little. Then thank heaven for the little asian lady at the dry cleaners around the corner from my house... cause she fixed the dress in 2 hours!! for only $55 too!! She saved my life. Then i took my sister to get her makeup done($120 for me and her on my credit card...OUCH!). The morning went great... then we went in the limo. It was a fun trip to the church. The ceremony went ok and then we went to the limo with my sister and her husband and his family and everyone. Thats when crap hit the fan. We were all joking and laughing, and my mom brought up a friend of hers wants to work for a porn star. My sisters husbands son started talking with me and mom about porn shops and stuff joking around. Everyones laughing having a good time. Omar is on the other end of the limo, with my sisters husbands mother. And i didnt see or hear, but apparently in the middle of this she said "i cant wait til we get there so we can shove a lamb chop in her mouth and she can shut the fuck up". She said that about me! WTF?? So omar shut her up and got into a little argument with her and told her if she didnt like it dont listen. But then when i joked with my sister, i told her that my dad took a shower today, and skipped his bi-weekly routine and shot for a weekly shower just for her(it was a JOKE, and they all thought it was pretty funny. My sister was saying how he looked all snazzy so i said that kidding around) and that nasty wench comes out with the most ridiculous inappropriate remark. She goes "oh did you help him?" Everyone was silent and i was like umm... ew no thats disgusting. Like come on now people. thats just nasty, not funny. But when we got there and i got out, omar told me about her nasty comment and i bugged. i was downstairs in the bridal suite flipping my lid saying i was going to leave if it was not addressed and she had NO right disrespecting and singling ME out like that when not only her son, but her grandson as well, were having the same conversation. But my father and omar and some ppl talked to me and convinced me to let it go, and after that she just stayed to herself. His whole family is nasty and rude and just really.... nasty. They stayed on their side at their tables, and we rocked the dance floor, the bar, and our side lmao. It was a fun night after that and i survived it lol. But yeah, its over and thank god for that. But all in all, it was ok. So thats more than id hoped for.