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| 07-12-2009 - 12 Weeks |
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Hi ladies
Thank you for your support and lovely messages as usual! Some people on here never change, they are just out for an argument, I've had a few nasty messages from cowards who create a fake profile just to send a nasty message, I mean come on how old are you! These people are obviously ashamed of what they're saying and know they're wrong or they'd just say it to me using their normal profile. Anyway, if I start to read a message from now on and its nasty I am just going to delete it. I can't be doing with pathetic nobodies trying to bring me down.
I am a fantastic mother and I'm doing everything I can to bring Joshua up to be as healthy as he can be. I love him more than anything in this world and will protect him and care for him until the day I die. How could anyone tell me I'm a bad mother because I stopped breastfeeding after 2 weeks! The poor thing was starving and I was in no fit state to look after him until I put him on bottles, he's now thriving and is a very happy healthy little boy.
Being a new mother is the most stressful, scary, worrying thing and what every new mother needs is support not people putting them down so all of you who keep sending me silly childish message just get a life will you and spend your time trying to help people not put them down. And don't waste your time sending me anymore messages because I won't read them.
My life is so perfect now I have my little bundle of joy and I won't let sad opinionated low lifes bring me down.
Thank you once again for those of you who always answers my questions and queries with full support and care, you are all lovely women, it's a shame there are the few that have to spoil this site.
I think it would be a good idea for the people who run this site to invent a block button so we can block out these nasty women so they can't see our blogs and messages. It would be a much better site if that could be possible.
23 Comments on 12 Weeksfirstlittleangel -
Tuesday, 22 Dec I can't believe someone said something about you not breastfeeding, it's your decision. I didn't even try to, I started right out on the bottle. that way I know my little one is getting all she needs. More power to you! I can't believe all the greif you get on this site! You are a great mom and doing a wonderful job! drod -
Sunday, 20 Dec Hi Helen, Have you ever heard the saying "those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"? Embrace the positive and ignore the negative. A happy Christmas to you Steve and the little blessing. jelly27 -
Thursday, 17 Dec Everyone has an opinion, whatever do what is best for you and yours! Your little man is gorgeous! the scroggins -
Wednesday, 16 Dec why would someone give u problems ovver breastfeeding? c'mon now that is BEYOND silly. lol. its a choice. im pretty sure when people buy formula other people don't judge you and think you are a terrible mother LOL. ppl need to grow up!! i didn't breasstfeed my princess and she is way healthy...chunky...alert...happy...what more can u ask for? people are always going to judge your mothering skills. to some ladies its a compeition and its silly. lol. you know your a good mommy and thats ALL that matters. They are just jealous! justuszanesmommy -
Friday, 11 Dec I think you did what you thought was right for your child. People just like to make others feel like crap because they did something wrong. From the day my son was born til i took him off formula he was bottle fed and he is one smart little 14 month old boy, U do what is right for you and baby joshua. Good luck hope these immature people grow up and let you live your life. lilly10 -
Friday, 11 Dec I so agree with you Helen...its good to see that you don't let those bloudy weirdos get you down..your a FAB mum :)Hugs xxx trying4thirdangel -
Friday, 11 Dec next time they say you are a bad mommy because you stopped breastfeeding tell them they are a bad mommy spending so much time harrassing you and not focusing on their children....you are doing a FANTASTIC job :) Keep up the great work Helen! Pocahontas -
Wednesday, 9 Dec Hear hear! I cannot agree more. I have seen some nasty comments on here and got one a while ago. However, you are right, don't let them put you down. You ARE a great mother. L byrdi -
Wednesday, 9 Dec both my boys were bottle fed, neither wanted to nurse...nothing to be ashamed of and good for you for not letting it get to you! haileys mommy -
Tuesday, 8 Dec Don't worry about all of those girls! I'm one person who is pro-breastfeeding. But if it's not for you, it's not for you! You did it and tried it, I give you props.. it's more than some people :D tylersmommie08 -
Tuesday, 8 Dec i wouldnt worry bout those ppl. i stopped breastfeeding mine at 4 or so wks. he didnt like latching on and he needed food. he did great after i put him on bottles(plus let everyone else feed him)i dont get some ppl. glad lil one is doing great and glad you and hubby are happy **MOLAR**SURVIVOR!! -
Tuesday, 8 Dec Luckily I have not gotten any nasty messages from anyone. How hurtful! Glad you are taking it with a grain of salt as they are a waste of skin and have no importance in your life, especially to bring you down!! I remember all the things I did with my first and think now, what the heck was I thinking. I used to think I was a bad mom for letting him sit a diaper with one pee for more then 30 seconds. I laugh about it now and know I am doing the best job I can. You know you are too and your baby and that is the only one you need to prove yourself to. Disregard all the ignorant mean ones. There is no doubt you are feeding that little piglet either as he has gotten so chubby and cute! Enjoy =) My2nd -
Tuesday, 8 Dec PS: Piglet looks SO cute now -getting big real-quick. My2nd -
Tuesday, 8 Dec Oh you get such crazy people! I had the same issues with people giving me issues - you just get people who are breast-gaga or crazy! I have inverted nipples, so breasfeeding was a mission for me and I still had people with perfect nipples who did not understand who judged me! Please do ignore them - you are the mom - take the advice you would like to and ignore those you don't need or want to hear...Really, in some instances - breast feeding is just not the best option - important thing is that you try or tried. I could also just manage 2 weeks. All breasts and babies are different~! :-) good luck! sam-4-bob -
Monday, 7 Dec Wow thats crazy, Jack wouldnt latch on so I formula fed him from the day he was born, nothing wrong with feeding your child how you see fit to !! xxx proudmommyof3♥ -
Monday, 7 Dec Oh goodness.. I'm so sorry that you have to deal with horid messages like that... and how utterly ridiculous for anyone to tell you your a bad mother because of how long you did or didn't breastfeed... to heck with them hun! Good for you on just deleting them, definitely not worth the time, nor energy! Take care & your little man is adorable! EmmaReed84 -
Monday, 7 Dec And this is why you never mess with a northern lass. lol Helen some people on here are probably sad individuals with nothiing better to do, I doubt they are mothers, bet they are just looking for a rasie from some one. I just laugh at people who waste their time thinking of nasty comments MrsMommy2 -
Monday, 7 Dec Who on earth would make you feel bad for not breastfeeding you child that is just ridiculous breast feeding isn't for everybody. My son wasn't breastfed and he's only ever been sick one time in 2.5 years and he caught croup off of a breastfed baby we had a play date with! I know everybody says breast is best but all the ladies I know personally who have soley breastfed there babies there babies have been sick constantly and in and out of the ER my one friend's little girl caught a horrible cold when she was only 3 weeks old. My son has only ever been sick one time in 2.5yrs and he was soley formula fed so it can't be that bad! So whoever it was making you feel bad for not breastfeeding can just shove it lol your little man is happy& healthy and thats all that matters. Your right being a new mommy is VERY hard gosh I was in such a panic the first time I was left alone w/ wyatt when DH had to return back to work i'd never been around newborns before I was so afraid I was going to do something to harm him but here he is 2.5yrs later a perfectly happy healthy little boy who is very much a momma's boy. So don't let negative people bring you down they are just jealous and narrow minded and will most likely raise narrow minded children. Your doing a great job keep up the good work! Abigails Mommy -
Monday, 7 Dec Good for you for being above it all!! I'm so sorry that you still have to deal with that. Jealousy is an ugly thing :-(I'm so glad Joshua is doing great! Merry Christmas to you all :-) momto4littleangelsn1ontheway -
Monday, 7 Dec good for you,just continue to love and take care of your child,you're not the first to stop breastfeeding and it's not like you didn't try cuz you did,some kids takes to breastfeeding and some doesn't,so continue to live your life and be the best mum you can be. proud.mummy.of.3xxx -
Monday, 7 Dec You go girl I think they are so out of order you are a good mum and you did it for 2 weeks more than some people I only did it for 5 and we stopped and did the best thin for our children, dont let there women put you down Joshua is very cute and they are just very immature and obviously have nothing better to do shouldnt they be looking after there children rather than making fake proviles. Sorry about my spelling hun hope you and your family are good love Leigh xxx christinesc -
Monday, 7 Dec Good for you for staying positive. There's no need to get wrapped up in their childish acts. What concerns me is that these immature people want to procreate or have procreated!! That's scary to me. rosye13 -
Monday, 7 Dec I have often wondered why there isn't a way to make our pages private and only accept the friends that we want so that only they can see our messages. There has to be a way . . . The other social networking sites do it . . . We need a suggestion box!