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07-4-2008 - thoughts about my decision

My mood while writing this blog: sad and scared.

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so0 ive been thinking about wat im going to do about this pregnancy. i think i am going to terminate the pregnancy, actually im pretty sure of it. im going to call my genetic counselor on wed and give her my decision so0 i can get the abortion so0n since im alreddy 4 months preg0. i just think its relle sad that this had to happen to me or anyone for that matter. but it was just so0 unexpected like i never ever would have thought ohhh wait wat if my baby has down syndrome. i mean that never crossed my mind at all! im so0 young i wasnt even on the paper the genetic counselor showed me for % of a risk for down syndrome. its just relle rare. but since ive had 2 miscarriages alreddy i guess it makes sense. idk. i just cannot believe it. like it hadddd to happen to me. it just had to. im relle not so0 suprised tho because everything i am excited for and everything i hope for just crashes and burns. thats the honest truth and not an exaggeration. i was wondering if neone else on here has decided to terminate a pregnancy? how did it go? did it hurt afterwards? any info would be great. thanks <3

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3 Comments on thoughts about my decision


08*c0nception- - Tuesday, 15 Apr
I really do think that you should at least adopt the baby...its a full fledge human being right now..i really dont mean to sound biased or judgemental at all what so ever but everyone i know who terminated their pregnancy had serious issues afterwards..for example my best friend..she terminated her pregnancy at 8 weeks 2 yrs ago and still cant forgive herself for it..im not saying that'll be you but please take that into consideration...down syndrome or not its still a human being that deserves a chance to live....God bless.

klasnaya - Sunday, 13 Apr
Poor Baby...

cahlika - Saturday, 12 Apr
I just read your story... I'm very sorry to hear you had to make such a heartbreaking decision.

I know telling you that someday you WILL have a healthy bub is not what you want to hear right now.. it's like someone telling you after a breakup with the love of your life "Oh you'll meet someone".. you just don't want to hear it.

But it's true in the end... I hope that it goes ok and that you get alot of support. :(