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13-8-2009 - A LITTLE TICKED OFF

My mood while writing this blog:
sad

Okay maybe I am hormonal but here is my story...last Friday my back started hurting so bad I felt as if I could not even walk at times. So I called my doctor because I tried everything . She seemed kinda annoyed like how dare I call her basically. She asked if i had back trouble before uh no but I have had back labor and two early babes. So when she saw me today she was less than friendly.

But that is not all my boss made a comment to me saying I would feel sorry for you if this was your first but this is number 5 right. I am just really sad that people are judging me because I hurt and my husband and I decided to have another baby. It is not like I am asking these people to take care of my kids I work everyday as does my husband and we own a business.

Well anyways I woke up this morning crying and wishing that I never got pregnant...don't get me wrong I love my baby but I do not like feeling bad for getting pregnant. I am so sad and depressed right now.

5 Comments on A LITTLE TICKED OFF

4thtimearoundat36 - Sunday, 16 Aug
There is a lot of prejudice to mothers who have more than the average 2.4 children AND choose to go to work. I have been told to buy a TV, get a puppy, get sterilised after this one, and worst of all that maybe I should have "got on with my life" instead of having bed rest "cos it was natures way of saying I have had enough children!" I live in the UK, not CHINA, wanting and having a large family is not a crime, but by some peoples attitudes they think I should be dragged out and shot at dawn. Well, after this one is born and I gonna get back into an office environment and give my baby number 4 a brother or sister! Wipe those tears and show the world your defiance.....your sisters here are ready to stand with you shoulder to shoulder and bump to bump. xxx

~ I luv my boyz ~ - Thursday, 13 Aug
wow I would have definatly said to him how many children we have is none of his fucking business!!!and for his information with each pregnancy it gets way harder on your body!with my first it was a breeze second a little more achy but with this being my third wow its been hard!!!!by the way congrads on the baby!!!!

normalee - Thursday, 13 Aug
i can realt to back pain and how your dr responds is how mine does too. we just have to deal with the pain there isnt much that they can do to help us really. i take a hot bath at take tylenol Pm and use the heating pad and it works most of the time. when it comes to your boss they just suck outher people just dont really understand. just take care and relax as much as you can. XXhugs for strenght.

masonnickey - Thursday, 13 Aug
Some people can be so insenstive to us, especially when we are expecting. I hope you feel better and I hope next time you see your dr she's not acting like she was today. Also it doesn't matter if its your 1st baby or your 10th pain is pain and people should be a little more understanding! I hope you feel better.

claire louise - Thursday, 13 Aug
Oh babe sounds like your dr and your boss need a talking to ! Soooooo what if this is baby number 5 its up to you how many kids you and hubby have. As for pain your doctor really should listen and do her job.x

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