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09-3-2010 - Baby Shower and week 36 update AnxiousMy mood while writing this blog:
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Hi Ladies,

Hope you all are doing well...Just an update on my baby shower...it was on Mar 6 and it went off very well....I had so much fun with my friends.......it was a sweet feeling to know that they really wanted to celebrate my baby. It was a small little get together with 8 of my friends, my sister and MIL.....

According to MIL, We will have a big 'after' baby shower...which is 40 days after baby's born....we'll invite everyone then.....but by that time I would have bought almost all the things i need...so it'll be a great party ...thats all!

I am feeling a little anxious about the next few weeks....maybe because I have nothing organized at my place.....as per the traditions from my MIL I can't get anything before the baby comes! ....so here i am 3 weeks away from getting my baby home and i have no crib, no car seat, no stroller, no clothes, no nothing.....I wish I could arrange my room with blue stuff and a cute crib with blue bedding......little onsies on the hangers....and look at all the stuff and have only positive thoughts for my little one ......awaiting his arrival.

But now I am super stressed and DH would have to run around going shopping and installing stuff when i'll be sitting home with a baby......FRUSTRATING!!!

I have a secret plan to go shop and stash all the stuff at my friend's place.....my MIL stays with us so no point even getting it home........grrrrrr........the last thing people should try to do is annoy a nine months pregnant lady!!

As per my little bubby......he's growing well.......kicking his way around my rib cage.....he has not dropped as per my last appointment.......hope he gives mommy sometime to secretly shop before initiating the whole deal!

Thats all for me......take care XOXO




4 Comments on Baby Shower and week 36 update


mommy-for-first-time - Thursday, 11 Mar
Hey Ima-mommy.....thats great 6th was a special day....sunny and lovely here :)......so glad ur shower went great!!.......thanks for the comforting words.......u r right I saw some baby stuff in the mall today and it was really hard to resist the temptation to buy!! Yeah I guess i'll take my lil man shopping along with me and he can choose his own outfits with mommy :)

ima-mommy4110 - Thursday, 11 Mar
hey i just had my baby shower on the sixth also had lots of fun. i dont see how you are doing it i had to buy something the moment i found out i was having i boy but if thats the tradition hang in there im sure you will have as much fun shoppin after the babies born as you would shoppin before hand

mommy-for-first-time - Wednesday, 10 Mar
Hey Deb, You are so right about controlling...I am sure its one of her ways to control things in the name of traditions.....I am letting hubby in on my plan of early shopping....i think i will get at least essential stuff in.......I am sooo excited about meeting my lil man!!! ....Hows lil Mia coming along......that precious lil princess!!

number5forme - Wednesday, 10 Mar
Great to hear that all is well!Oh please please please GO SHOPPING!!!!!! forget about your intrusive MIL!!!!! She has been very controlling of you - I cant believe that anyone would allow someone to take over the way you have let her. YOU ARE JUST TOO NICE!!!!!! You can not for a minute not think that all there is to this is that SHE wants to be choosing all of YOUR things so she needs to wait until you are all tied up with bubby! I would DEFINITLY at least pick out all the items myself(being very specific) or else actually buy them and stash them like you said (I wouldnt stash them myself, just tell MIL to mind her own beezwax but once again you are just too lovely to do that =])You just cant leave EVERYTHING last minute. like you said "too frustrating"!!!!I really hope that you get your things (and tell your MIL to step back) and can relax and enjoy your precious bundle as you should - nothing to worry about except for baby and hubby...Good Luck with it all!!!!xx
Photos
My first baby (2008, 01, 18) First signs of my little bubba (2008, 01, 18)

Children
Aarya-Gupta (2008) Aaryan-S-Gupta (2010)

Latest blogs
28-7-2010 - My Baby is 4 months old!
12-7-2010 - My Baby's Birth Story
27-3-2010 - Is it Labor??
22-3-2010 - Week 38 update
09-3-2010 - Baby Shower and week 36 update
06-2-2010 - Week 32 update
08-1-2010 - Week 28 Update
22-12-2009 - DH felt the baby for the first time
11-12-2009 - Week 24 and counting
19-11-2009 - Team blue for me!
14-11-2009 - Week 20 update
29-9-2009 - Week 12 update - NT Scan
12-9-2009 - Week 10 visit to Doc
12-8-2009 - And the result is......
09-8-2009 - MIL driving me nuts!!
04-8-2009 - Moving my old page into this blog
30-7-2008 - Another angel in heaven
28-7-2008 - DH not helping
16-7-2008 - God think it's funny!!
04-6-2008 - Happy for everyone else
21-5-2008 - Still feeling down

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