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| 23-9-2009 - HELP ME OUT LADIES |
My mood while writing this blog: KINDA BLANK |
Now ladies I know this is fucked up. Trust me I know.
ok so my problem is, Kai is due Jan 5. well my next semester starts Jan 20. i REALLY dont want to take the next semester off bcuz that would set me back months and im trying to finish my GE so i can transfer to a 4 year university. reguardless of when he comes, my mom is going to make me go to school bcuz thats the deal. i stay in school, i can stay at her house for free and she'll help with childcare. well if he's born in Jan, i'll only have about a week to spend time with him until i start leaving him. i dont think i'll be able to do it. but if he comes like the week b4 xmas(37 weeks) i'll have 4 weeks to be with him. thats better than 1 IMO. idk wut to do. like how im i supposed to tell my dr that i want to be induced at 37 weeks bcuz of scheduling. how messed up is that! but then again me leaving him at 1 week old is also messed up. should i bring it up with my dr? wut should i do? and if i should bring it up with my dr., when should i?
5 Comments on HELP ME OUT LADIESmals313 -
Thursday, 24 Sep See if there are online courses offered. Your education is very important so you can be independent and raise your baby on your own. I would talk to your Dr for advice and just be honest. If you cant find any online courses then I would go ahead and start school. Its only for a short time that you would be away from your baby and he will be in good hands while your gone during the day. You will still have lots of time to be with him. Thats just my opinion though. Hope this helps. xoxoxo prettypoodle -
Wednesday, 23 Sep I'm a senior Microbiology major myself..but this semester (my baby is due next week!!), I decided to do independentstudy!! So I'm taking my classes online and the professors work around my pregnancy..i.e. visits to the ER. You're lucky if your doctor will induce you at 37 wks...my doctor won't induce before 38 weeks!! I think that you should check into taking your courses online; and you will be able to remain in school, spend time with baby, and your body will have the proper and necessary time to heal!!! The financial aid process and everything is EXACTLY the same and face-to-face lectures. I definitely wouldn't stress out too much about it because your LO just may decide to come at 37 weeks!! You still ahve a couple of months to decide!!! Goo dluck with whatever decision you make and I hope I helped out a bit!! racho -
Wednesday, 23 Sep My baby is due 12/30. I go to college full time and the spring semester begins Jan 8. Thats only like 1 week. My mom works full time and so does my hubby so I have to put baby in daycare when I go back to classes. I hate, hate to do it. However, my solution? skipping spring semester or taking online only..but going to summer school. this way I get to spend time with Abigail and not put her in daycare immediatly, but I wnt get to far behind in school. Would it be possible for u to do something like that? kikimama10 -
Wednesday, 23 Sep same issue i decided to take it off becasue not only are you going to want that bonding time with kai but your body needs time to heal. just think carefully kickboxer prince coming soon -
Wednesday, 23 Sep i have the same problem!! i have to be in school if i want my moms support but i just dont want to have to leave him after a week or 2... sorry im not much help but i dont think you would be messed up for scheduling his birth weeks before!! =)