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	Age: 20 Country: Province/region: TENNESSEE...TITANS! City: Partner: Colby =) Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: No Occupation: legal assistant
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08-9-2008 - im SO mad

My mood while writing this blog:
UPSET!

i am so pissed off! i work everyday 9-5:30..i drive to DOWNTOWN NASHVILLE (30min away) every freaking morning so by the time i get off & get home it is 6:00!!! my boyfriend works 6-3 (and sometimes its 6-2 or 6-1) after he gets off he doesnt do shit!!!!! he just goes home and lays around at our condo!!! (every once in a while he will clean ill give him that but hardly EVER!) all i ask him to do is to help out with the bills and to clean the litter boxes (considering he was in the room when my doctor told me it was unsafe for me to clean them) he only does it like ONCE a week & i have to fight with him to get him to even clean them!! but the REAL reason im so pissed is because i make almost TWICE as much as him & he doesnt even try to get a new job!!! nor a second job!! he has me & his little boy to support & he doesnt give a shit about us obviously because all he does is spend ALL his $ & when its time for bills he won't have the $. i hate him seriously sometimes i really do hate him. he bitches all the time when i ask him to do anything..all he does is call me fat & he barely ever even looks at me anymore. when he does look at me he always acts like hes about to throw up because im getting a belly BECAUSE OF OUR CHILD!!!! why cant he bust his ass to support his family? he was also supposed to start school this semester..did he? OF COURSE NOT! because i swear he is a worthless piece of shit! i am not going to work at this job when my son is born because someone else would be watching MY SON from 8-6 & then i can get home and spend 2 hrs with him?!?! because i know he's not going to stay up until 9 just to see me. i feel like i have no one. i don't want to be with colby anymore..honestly..but i am so scared of being alone. i have lost ALL my friends through this pregnancy & not to mention we just moved into a condo which is really pricey & i can't make it without his help (even $100 helps u know) honestly my baby daddy is a piece of shit..the only thing he is good for is company..i just dont know what to do anymore..

3 Comments on im SO mad

MAMAjo ♥ - Monday, 13 Oct
grrrrrrrr! men are so insensitive!

Britney8328 - Monday, 8 Sep
I would be so pissed off if that was my situation!! you need to put your foot down and tell him to leave, If he cant respect you, help you out with the house or bills even you need to tell him he that he either gets his shit together or gets out. There are things you can do to get out of a lease with a condo and if his name is on the lease as well he is just as responsible for the place as you are Im sorry you have to go through that now no pregnant girl needs that kinda stress!! your having a baby you dont need another one (your bf) so tell him and mean it then if nothing changes just leave to your parents or find a cheaper place , its a pain but you dont want to raise a baby with someone that doesnt even help out now, imagin how it will be then! .. Sorry i go on and on i just hate guyslike that who act like they dont have to do anything to change you are a beautiful girl and if he is dumb enough to lose you then he doesnt deserve you!

luckywhite - Monday, 8 Sep
kick him out - you can do it on your own if you have to.. do your family live near. could you stay with them till you got somewhere more suitable to stay..

i would give him an ultimatum.. tell him to get off his arse or you are leaving.

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